MILFs and cougars have always been a point of interest for me. I k-closed on one at a club once but now my focus is online game since it landed me my last 2 gf's and some lays.

Anyways, I'm looking for some online routines or canned lines for MILFs and cougars. My normal routine for people my age works fairly well but has a long term focus on it which is not what I'm going for right now. If there's a thread already up I'll take the link. I tried the "boy toy?" opener on 5 milfs and got two replies so far. One I was blown out immediately after viewing my proflie and the other said "Nope, thx" without a profile view.

Some fast facts on me:

- 28 years old, thin, brown skinned, 6'0"
- Currently in med school overseas but I come back for 2 weeks at a time for semester breaks
- My next break starts at the end of next month so I'm thinking putting in the work now will yield results later

I could continue with my normal routine and reframe it to be more sexual but I'm not even sure how to pull that off keeping in mind my time constraint.

Cougars aren't, in my experience, easier to game just different.

What you have is a woman, who is past her prime, competing against younger and hotter females for the available male attention.

Cougars are usually independent, self-reliant and confident.

Some have larger than life personalities and express this in the exaggerated style of fashion they wear(skimpy skirts, body-fitting tops, revealing cleavage, heavy make-up etc) to accentuate her fading femininity.

Because cougars are self-reliant, they are not impressed by guys who want to buy them drinks or treat them to romantic dinners, they want PASSION and they want a CHALLENGE and they want reassurance that they are still desirable and sexy.

Try on these big boy pants, if you up for a challenge in your life:

You: Hi..I love your dress..its elegant/stylish but sexy in a way..

Her: oh, thank you.(cougars are addicted to thoughtful compliments)

You: I shouldn't be talking to you right now..not after what happened last time( look away)

Her: What, why not?

You: Well, I met a hot sexy woman just like you and we just CLICKED..she was different - so mature, so elegant..not like these childish girls(point to other girls around you)..and then..I shouldn't be telling you this..but there something about you..are you (star sign)?

Her: Yes/No, I'm a (star sign).

You: OMG!! Is it true that (star sign) women are more adventurous - they know what they want and go after it?

Her: Yeah, blah blah(cougars love esoteric stuff - anything that reveals the 'real' her)

You: I thought I was the only person who believe in this stuff..It's so nice when you meet someone who shares the sames interests as your..get over here(take her hands and pull her in for the hug)..where have you been all my life?

Her: OMG!! HAHA!!(should be hugging you back)

You: Wow, your body feels amazing, do you work out? wait, before you answer that..are you a gym instructor??

Her: haha!! no but I do yoga and blah blah(cougars are always doing yoga, reading self-help and on diets)

You: You are stunning my dear..and not just for your age..you are stunning all round..these young girls aint got nothing on you..can I get a HELL YEAH??(and hi5 her)

Her: HAHA!! Are you for real? (cougars always need reassurance regarding their attractiveness)

You: Look, if I was a few years older..the 2 of us would have been having some naughty fun right now..

Her: What do you mean if you were older?(She takes the bait as she is emotionally invested)

You: Look, you sexy and everything but I don't think you can handle ALL OF THIS(point to yourself)..

Her: Listen hear, I've shoes probably older than you. You probably just scared I'll teach you a thing or 2.

You: Is that so, how bout a little less conversation and more action(folded arms and challenging look on your face)

Her: Not here/I can't believe I'm doing this/You quite cocky aren't you, does your girlfriend know you out tonight? (Any of these responses and all you do is isolate and physically escalate)

Cougars love to be dominated and love to be told how naughty, sexy they are - use that to your advantage.

Awesome stuff. But I was looking for the online approach? I'll definitely use that in field when the opportunity arises!

Hey dude, I've been online gaming for a while. I have two profiles set up on POF -- one for gaming girls my own age and another for trying to find women 40+ as it won't let me message any above that for some reason on my regular profile.

Anyway, I have worked out a routine that I seem to consistently number close with after months of trial and error. I find that it works great on girls my own age, but works even BETTER with Milfs + Cougars. I've actually come to realize that many older women in their 40s and 50s on online dating website, while initially looking for a long-term relationship with a man their own age, can be quite easily be persuaded into meeting up for some NSA sex with a younger man if you play your cards right. There have many I have opened in a teasing / banter kind of way who have very quickly escalated to s*x talk. Actually 2 nights ago I managed to get an older womens number who is just up for meeting up and having s*x. It's great! haha!

Anyway -- here is a link to a blog I did on the subject talking about what I have written on my profile and the routine I use
http://nipua.blogspot.co.uk/2014/07/onl ... ine-i.html

And here is a template conversation of that routine
http://nipua.blogspot.co.uk/2014/07/onl ... plate.html

The only difference I have on my "MILF Hunting" profile page is that I have written this...

NOTE -- As you can probably tell I am not 44. I am actually 28. Just set up this profile as a way of contacting older women if I see any that tickle my fancy -- and for those looking for a younger, hotter, energetic man that excites them as opposed to a fat, balding, old man who is boring, have passed their sexual prime, and plague your inbox pleading for a response to their painfully generic questions.
-- NOTE: Depending on your ethics, This might seem wrong, but I am actually 26, lol!! I just found if you lie about your age a little they are more inclined to be more responsive. I have no intention of dating these women long term, so a little white lie won't hurt anyone =)

You tend to find they love that and find it very funny...and possibly a bit of a turn on.

So two things might happen....

1) They might say "I am too old for you" -- this might indicate that they aren't really interested so it might be difficult to turn around, but the most effective routine I have found is just replying back in a banterish kind of way...something like "Don't worry Grandma....I will make you feel young again" or "You got your zimmer frame / walking stick yet, then?... I think it is a sign of weakness trying to prove yourself by explaining "Oh, I am very mature for my age, I think it would work out"

Sometimes most will acknowledge that you are a younger man and not even mention it, but most of the time the conversation will turn round to saying "What do you like about older women?" I generally tend to recognize this as an IOI... I tend to respond with...

"I am interested in women period...there is nothing inherently special about older women. But they do have many qualities that I find attractive. They are on my wavelength intellectually...I like good, intelligent conversation and most girls my own age aren't very educated. They are much more experienced and independent. They have high-self esteem and are emotionally stable. They are feisty and sassy, and they are also in their s*xual prime...these are just a few characteristics that I find appealing in older women.

What about you...would you date a younger man?"

Best bet is to let on you aren't just looking for s*x, try to give her the impression that you are a guy with no real expectations or hidden agenda...if you make it past this stage...it should be plain-sailing from there on in =)

Hope this works for you man

Phil

This is money. It's exactly what I've been looking for. Till now, I've been running with the WOAH method which is kinda old but effect. They all think it's cute and funny but your routine is more to the point. I'll for sure run it on my next online sarg session!

Let me know how it goes man

So a quick update:

Your stuff is a good opener. I've used it a few times and do get responses. With the first message some will tell me what they are doing here and end the message with, "Good Luck" telling me they don't want to go further. I tend to get a little stumped after the, "would you throw a hair dryer at me?" line but that's probably because I'm not being that creative. They usually respond with some form of no, followed by a portrayal of the nice girl.

What has been REALLY successful is the WOAH method. It's kinda old but very effective because it's so playful. Here's the link to the thread: topic39020.html

When I do make progress in the convo, often times they get cold feet and I had to basically "pull the trigger" which is my hailmary on the older women and it has shown mixed results. Some will not respond. Some will buckle and go with it. Here's my trigger which I adapted from another line I saw on here. It's basically stops the playful banter and gets real for a sec:

"Let me be honest..I'm a (age) year old, single, (ethnicity/race) male from the (your location) area. I've always had an thing for older women but I never built the confidence to say anything about till now.

I'm actually in med school out of the country at the moment. I get to come home for little semester breaks here and there and have one coming up. I thought it would be fun and a change of pace(for both of us) to have a drink while I was down there. I like to say I tried rather than what if you know? If not, I understand and wish you a rich and happy life "

Of course change it up as needed.

If anyone else has tips/tricks for online sarging this population let me know and I'll post results! So far with my mix of openers/routines I have 2 number closes and 7 others that have said yes but I haven't asked for the number yet. I ask for the number as it gets closer to my semester break.