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I think most people on here are XNTP. I've been into Myers-Briggs for years. You should try getting the other person's Myers-Briggs, but don't tell your own. Actually, I don't even need to ask most of the time: I can guess. It's all about the cognitive functions.
MBTI is more or less rock-paper-scissors. For instance, your TJ will be right more of the time but your FJ will know how to make him look bad in front of other people.
I don't think as an INFJ that it matters if I tell it or not. Many isn't that interested anyway, but INFJ's are kind of a mystery so it might even build more attraction.
I would suggest that if you are iNtuitive (N) you should find yourself iNtuitive partner and same goes for sensing (S) function. These kind of people understand each other naturally more easily and this is a good prediction for how well you match together. I don't think I'll ever want to date a Sensing type again. Also Judging (J) should be matched with perceiving (P). Judging is the dominant one and two dominant ones is unlike to match as well as opposites. If Feeling (F) and Thinking (T) (the way we make decisions) are opposites I've noticed that it creates more sexual tension than if they were same. Extroversion (E) should be matched with Introversion (I) because they complement each other. To me it doeasn't really matter because I am an ambivert (both introvert and extrovert depending on the situation). So in example my ideal natural match based in cognitive functions would be either ENFP or ENTP. The sexual tension is also great in my experience with INTP's but I don't yet come along so well with them.
There is a good book about the subject, The Art of Speedreading People. I've used MBTI like 4-5 years and it is a great tool to get to know people more. Enneagram is also great, but I wouldn't say it is as good as MBTI because MBTI reflects the way we behave and enneagram reflect our motives why we behave as we do. MBTI for dating, enneagram for marriage
