hey guys, im new here. ive studied pickup for a while but never really applied it...until recently. Any who, theres this bar by house i go to, the bar tender there is a hb8. Been going there for a few months and she shows plenty of IOI's. we been texting, we have our inside jokes blah blah blah you get the picture. Now she has gone cold on me (which sucks cuz i had planned to go cold on her to increase her feelings for me, butttt she beat me to it i guess ) i plan to just ride it out, dissapear for a bit ( no texting her, no going to the bar,no liking, commenting on IG pix ect) then things will go back to normal, the REAL problem i am having is im afraid to ask her out. in all these threads i read the guy bounces the femal, or goes and does something, well i cant do that, i just moved to this town a few months ago, im really broke, cant afford to take her anywhere so i dont even ask. i cant invite her over for a movie and a beer cuz my room only has a bed and my clothes in it which would be a total DLV.
she does NOT know how poor i am right now and i intend on keeping it that way til i can get back on my feet. what options do i have to ask a girl out when money is so slim? helllp meeee

It's called instant messaging for a reason. ..if I wanted to wait a week for a reply, I'd of sent a fucking letter.

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There are plenty of other women you know?

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That's a pretty cool idea, if anyone else has anymore please keep them coming. And yes I do know there are other girls but this is the current one I want, next month it will probably be someone new.

Hi Hyperion, I would say do a search online for "Free things to do in (your city.)" I know that in my city, there is even a meetup group dedicated to doing free or really cheap things. You could try something like this and then take dates there if you like the vibe. I'm really broke too right now, so I feel your pain.
Have you thought of trying to get a second job?

yes i've used meetup before but to meet new girls haha never thought of using it for a cheap date though. I'll check into that today. hopefully we have something similar in my area as in yours. Meetups are always group activities, which is cool for a first date but after that? i guess i could bounce her easy enough
I have no intentions of getting 2nd job, I am however looking for a better paying job. As I Said before i'm new to this city so i'm still trying to get on my feet.

Well, let's say you game one girl from a meetup at a place that ends up being cool, sure, you'll have to take her somewhere else after that. But now you know about that place as a potential for any future girls. You can use the same place multiple times. You'll be super comfortable there, you'll have social proof (since at least the staff will recognize you,) plus you'll DHV to the regulars since they'll always see you with different girls.

Also, some places can be repeated with the same girl as a date. For example, if you guys have a blast on "Salsa Night" of a particular club, you all might want to go back again (for example, if they give salsa lessons.)

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