I need advice on how to banter with girls better in the daytime. Im only 16 so all my game revolves around mall game, but whenever I go out solo and start up a conversation with these girls I always run out of stuff to say because Im never in a talkative mood. I need help

In that case, you need to focus on getting into a talktative mood, making it part of your personality and regularly building momentum. Be process-oriented... I went through this same thing over the years, to the point where I can regularly self-amuse and give value without getting too stuck for words (even though that still happens from time to time). Do things you enjoy, learn, expand your mind, but most importantly have all kinds of interactions.

Bantering with store people is good, practise striking up conversations and cracking jokes, getting to the point where you feel less stifled and judged, therefore more carefree. "Seeing the social matrix", if you will. Then when you start approaching more women you want to attract, instead of just being in a confident social mode, you will continue building upon this with better leading and seduction skills. But don't get too far ahead of yourself. You're only 16, time and patience is your friend (I started game and pick-up when I was a clueless 23 year-old five years ago).

Sorry I couldn't offer any specific routines, considering you posted this on the routines forum. But over time you will learn more about yourself, and the world in general, and develop your own style and way of relating to people (and specifically women). Everything you say will become more natural, although there could be many things you repeat because they're more effective in certain situations, and better represent who you genuinely are.

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I can defenintly relate to what you said because Ive realized that in all my sets I was being really fake and using really bull shit dhv stories. So Im no working on personal development to natrually stop giving a shit what people think of me, and to natrually start to attract women with my personality rather then a cheezy little gimmick.

You sure have the right idea. Just think about how fun it is to talk to pretty girls. Let it show that it is fun. Run out of stuff to say, just ask the most irrelivent question you got, and suffix it with "who cares? It doesn't matter what you talk about." Because it doesn't.

Thanks man I appreaciate that.

this was one of my biggest problems since i was probably the most socially awkward teen before. The only way to get past this is to practice observations and ask open ended questions. Those alone will not get the girl talking; you also need to be interesting. This is a lot to focus on so instead of trying to work with a routine or a structure just practice and it will come to you naturally. It's just about letting your mind flow. Think of it as brainstorming.

Definently like getting in a talkative mood.

Never run out of things to say when talking to a girl: http://ipickupwomen.com/how-to-always-k ... to-a-girl/

I hope it helps.

I used to struggle with the same thing, night game was never something I cared for, so I really went 100% with day game lol.

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Haha! Thanks man.

I'm gonna tell you to do something and at first its not going to make any sense but I will explain.

When you get to the mall go directly to the bathroom and occupy a stall or stand in front of the mirror. Take on an alpha pose such as head high hands on hips legs apart like wonder woman stands for one minute. This actually lowers hour stress hormones and brings up your testosterone levels which will make you feel better and more motivated. There is no chanting or telling yourself you are a sexy beast required, just the stance. I found this out to be a big help this last week in motivating myself to be more talkative, I've also felt the change that I'm more alpha entering a situation or group.

Ill try it out today. Thanks man.☺