Hi, I am new here, I really like your advice.
Let me tell my story first.. I first saw this girl at the new year party this year. She was with her boyfriend, we didn't know each other before, we also didn't talk too much there because her boyfriend was kinda jealous. Just dancing with her and one more guy a traditional Romanian dance.
We are from the same town, but I left for university a while ago. Last days I saw a pic of her here in town (on Facebook). She will attend University here and will move here this autumn. I really liked her from the new year party but she had a long-term relationship.
As soon as I saw the pic, I also saw she's single, I added her on facebook, liked 2 of her photos. Later, she liked also 2 of my photos. I started chatting with her.
This happened Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday. Then I took a break, because she left, and I was making no progress, just looking needy if I talk to her. She will go in 2 holidays with her family next month, so I bet she isn't keen on making a boyfriend, and then she will get back here on October.
I translated the chat if you want to have a look and tell me what I did wrong, and what I should do next.
My idea is to just wait, if I see sth interesting about her on fb, I can have a little funny chat with her about that subject, and that's all until she comes here. What do you think ?
Thank you for your time!
I know I looked a bit needy, that won't happen anymore
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Code:
Me:
Hi Mire , how are you ?
Her:
Hi
Nothing, sitting around. How are you?
Me:
I was trying to study sth, but this hot weather doesn't really let me do this.
Did you come to "Timisoara" (my city)?, you here to attend for university ? Or just visit ?
Her:
Yes, tomorrow I have the exam.
Me:
Yes me too, also some kind of exam :))
What faculty will you go for ?
Her:
Polytechnics, Automatics and Computers //(the same I followed)
Me:
good job
Her:
What exam do you have ? Or have you missed any exam ?
Me:
No, I have a job interview. I finished the university. Well almost, I have just the final exam to pass.
Her:
Well, good luck then.
Her:
What faculty have you attended.
Me:
The same.
Her:
:))
Super
Me:
The best job in the world :))
Her:
For sure
[more talking about this]
Me:
When you'll leave ? Or you like here too much and you'll stay here ? :))
Her:
I have to.. my parents... I am here for more than one week.
Me:
:)), You'll stay when the university starts.
[talking about where she'll stay]
Me:
I have to go, I will continue studying. Talk soon, good luck tomorrow.
Her:
Thank you, same wishes to you.
[next day]
Me:
Mire how was it ?
Her:
I got 81 points.
[more talking about that]
Me:
What are you doing later today? Do you want to go for a walk ? I will talk to your sister to allow you :))
Her:
Well, my father came too today and we'll go out with my family. But if sth changes, I will let you know.
Me:
You promise ?
Anyway, nice to go with your fammily. When you can... I would like to go for a walk/a drink with you. This facebook
is boring.
Her:
Let me see what I will do tonight and I let you know :D.
Me:
Not really tonight, stay with your family, we'll see when.
Her:
Ok.
Me
I'll go now, have fun.
Her:
Thank you a lot.
[i am sure she didn't lie about her parents, she really got out with her family]
[next day - she also left this day, so no way i could get her out]
Me:
System.out.println("Congratulations !"); :)) [i used that because I saw he did well at the exam and we do programming - this is a java statement :D]
Her:
:)))
Thaaanks!
What have you done?
Me:
Don't know yet, it's a longer process, each interviewer have to write a review, send it to America, then he decides. I hope I'll get a response
this week.
Her:
Good luck then.
[more talking about summer plans etc].
CHAT
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