Hey guys, so last night I went alone to a three-level dance club that primarily attracts a college crowd with a mix of music & offering VIP service. Even though it wasn't a particularly high-end club it still seems to be a pretty good one. Unfortunately, I didn't succeed with any of the girls that I tried approaching and dancing with. Immediately before I get on the dance floor or even around it I get right into the mood of the music and appear as if I am having a good time instead of just standing or sitting around by myself staring at the crowd (especially at women) or even walking alone onto the dance floor by myself like a creeper. Here is breakdown from what I can best remembered last night as to what kind of girls and women I approached last night in chronological order:

1. There were women who all were actually in their 30s who in a way actually initiated with me first. This happened during the first time I entered onto the dance floor, and when I did they all immediately said hi to me with excitement and even asked me if I wanted to dance them, to which I did. Out of those three women, one of them actually looked attractive and she asked for my name without me asking any of their names first. The other two were not attractive, so I mainly danced with the hot one and eventually tried to get closer and closer to her while not breaking eye contact with her (at least for the most part) as well as having a half-smile on my face. During my dance with her, she would first ask me if the music that they were playing was favorite, to which I shook my head with a half-smile on me saying "no, not really." Afterwards, I would ask her if this if this is her favorite kind of music, to which she responded with also shaking her head with a smile and saying "no, I like country music." Then I just kept dancing with her and trying to get physically closer to her until she asks how old I am. I then, say for her to take a guess, and guesses that I am 23, but I say that I am actually. I then ask how old she was to which she said that she was like thirty something year old. It was sometimes hard for me to hear on the dance floor what other people would be saying to me with the loud music playing, and I had to ask the chick at least a couple more 2 times again even bring my ear right next to her as what her age was, and I still couldn't clearly get it. After a while she say would how cute I was, squeezing my face with her fingers saying how it's babyface it is, taking a picture of me, and I think saying how I am too young for them. So, I didn't know what to do after all that and eventually they would excuse themselves off the dance floor and say that they are going to cool off from heat on the dance floor.

2. A blonde girl who appeared to be my age I think was watching me dancing with the first three women I danced with. She looked hot, and we ended up dancing real close to each other to the point of where I got her to spin around at least a few times for me, have our bodies rubbing against each other, and even seemed okay with me having my hands on her ass. I would keep most of my gaze on her again with half-smile on me and sometimes I would try to bring my head right next to hers in order to go in for a kiss. However, everytime I tried it her head would be facing down. I even tried stroking her hair, holding her hands while dancing too but those didn't work to make her seem ready to kiss me. Also, in the middle of our dancing I asked for her name, and then she asked for mine. Eventually, she excused her to go to the bathroom and at least it seemed like we had a good time dancing together.

3. There were several other girls that I tried approaching towards while dancing towards them on the dance floor, but most of them would either shake their heads and say no or put up their stop hand gestures and say no or just bump and grind on me for a moment.

4. For the last girl that I approached towards the end of the clubbing time, I was on the second dance floor level and there were about six dance poles on the floor level for any one to try. I tried one in front of the last girl I approached who happened to be with her guy friends and one girl friend, and after messing around with the pole pretending to a be stripper and climbing on it, and they all thought I was funny and play along with me on it saying like "yeah, alright, woo, woo!" So, afterwards I approached the girl who I was mainly trying to get the attention of. I told her with a cheeky smile on me that it's now your turn to try it, to which she laughed and said no (even her girl friend encouraged to do it, but still didn't do it). So, then I say something like "alright, then do you wanna dance?" However, she says "no, sorry, but I hanging with my friends." So, finally I said with a smile that I understood her and walked off.

So, given all of what I told you guys and besides suggesting me to bring friends with me to clubbing next time, what else could I do to improve my chances significantly with girls at dance clubs in the future?