Hey guys,

So, I've been with a girl for a while and yesterday I just had sex with her for the first time, also she took my virginity. Anyway, I guess I was expecting more for my first time, so I had a hard time feeling anything with the condom on and I didn't feel pleasure at all, while she did a lot - anyway I was able to come... after a while.

But, what's weird is just that when I came; I just didn't feel happy or anything, I wasn't able to sleep last night - and right now I'm feeling miserable, because I don't know if I really like her at all and for some reason is killing me. I mean, I like her - we get along so well sometimes I can't believe it, but right now it feels weird. Maybe it's just me over thinking it, maybe I should have more sex with her?

What's your opinion about this?

Thanks.

You.... really don't need to like a girl that much to have sex with her. It's OK to just have fun (make sure she knows that if it looks like she's getting attached though).

OR - if you actually think you like her, even better - go for it. You'll be more comfortable next time.

It gets better. Nobody's first time is awesome.

Thanks, I do like her - I just feel weird for some reason

Maybe some more sex will clear your mind about this situation? The first time is not that great for a lot of ppl. You've crossed that line w/ her now, if you feel like it, go for it. She enjoyed herself so she probably wants it again.