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I normally open with an opinion based opener, (depending on day game or Night game). Then I move to a hook point, tease, Grab her hand (kino) tell her if she has small hands or big (say something like you have small hands, you'd be great at playing the guitar but you'd suck at the Drums.) I also try to neg at this point if she has on Fake nails, if she doesn't I compliment them..--> I will try to throw in a Neg at this point. Then I tease , Grab her hand again. Then I continue with either an ESP trick or the CUBE. ,<--- after I tell them what this means, at that Point I get stuck.. When I get stuck like this then I usually use Mystery's Number close.. It works.. But I want to build more rapport and attraction on the first meet.. any Help would be Great!!
It sounds like you are being very structured. To me, Game should be more natural. You should open and build some social rapport, and tease when she presents the opportunity.
A Neg is a big rapport break. She needs to be seeking Rapport with you for it to work on maximum efficacy. I would save it to build Attraction as a last resort.
Your transitions seem tight with the observation hand comment.
Rapport and Attraction build at the same time.
A good Number Close should be at about 20 minutes in. Before you number close you should Timebridge. After you number close do another observational transition and do some Grounding, and keep the conversation going. You keep attraction up with teasing.
The number close is just a way point just in case you must eject before you can pull.
I will build into a number close with Qualification, the number close is an investment test to ensure Qualification is going well, and I keep qualifying.
If you struggle to keep going, try to strip away ALL routines and Game. It will suck but after a while you will be able to keep going.
You did not mention a FTC, one of those will give you a reason to eject after the number close if you really do need to eject for any reason.
I hope this answered your questions.