whats up everybody

my biggest problem like most of the guys is that first step to approach a girl. Stepping out of your comfort zone and just start talking. What lines worked best for you? What techniques did you used the first times to take that first step? Any help is welcome, I just don't know where to start. HELP PLEASE!

so what do you do for a living?

Try and say something that really moves the conversation towards hobbies and livestyle
and then work your way on.If she mentions something you do as well like dancing or reading
or music is a great one because then you can ask her to dance if your in a nightclub

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hey man, I wouldn't say there are specific lines that work and don't work etc.

try just talking to as many people as you can in one night or whatever, random groups of guys, girls, barmaids, anybody! open with a question, ARE YOU FROM AROUND HERE? IS THIS PLACE GOOD?

remember to set a time barrier: 'quick question' so as not to seem like you are gonna stay hanging with them and wont ever leave!

just talking to people and not expecting anything from it is how I got any results, because you aren't expecting a number close or whatever you want to happen, you will find yourself more comfortable!

good luck!

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I have the same mindset but tend forget about the number..

I wouldn't start with asking what she does for a living. i would build a bit more rapport first. whats ur name? where r u from? what do u like to do for fun? what do u want to be when u grow up? have fun and look for playful negs. Dancing can also be a tough one. If you're not down with this, then you can "bounce" her around the club ie moving to different locations arm in arm or hand in hand preferably.

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well dancing is a great way to escalate kino?if its just simply club music play,she will want to dance if she isnt with friends,and no need for rapport if you can get her to dance?

also it doesnt have to be that exact line but just towards what the girl likes,i was thinking you got her name and location and just hit an awkward silence ?

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LOL really?

to be fair, anything works when you're in a good mood.

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as i say again,it doesnt have to be that exact line,you could be spontaneous and just
come up with something else?(im not spontaneous btw) but finding her interests and somewhat of her lifestyle
you could go into detail about something youre passionate about,mental giving the girl intimate thoughts

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I've studied approaching lines that you can say for long, and I discovered that there are basically
only 3 universal ways you can start a conversation with ANY woman.

Every line you can ever think of fits in these 3 categories.

They are:

1. Saying or gesturing HELLO
2. Asking a QUESTION
3. Making a COMMENT

Let's take a look at the first one, saying HELLO

If you see a girl, and she's standing next to you, you can just say "Hi" or "Hello" or "Hey"

Sometimes you don't even have to say anything, but you can just wave her and she'll wave
back at you.

The second is asking her a QUESTION.

There are short questions you can ask, and long questions.

A short question can be like, "What's up?" "Where does this bus going?" "Where are you headed?"
"You having a good time?" "Isn't it hot today...?"

and long questions like, "Hey I'd really like to get your opinion on something - who do you
think lies more, boys or girls" (Lol. That one is as old as pua)

And the third is making a COMMENT.

When making a comment, it's really important that you just OBSERVE what's going on.

So for example, if it's a really hot day, you can say "What a hot day". If you are sitting
in a park and it's a nice day, you can say, "What a nice day".

If you are observing a view, like a view on a beach you can say, "Amazing view".

You can comment on her and say something like, "Nice dress" or "nice lipstick"
or "nice shoes"

What is REALLY important when it comes to approaching women and saying that first something is
to remember to NOT THINK TOO AHEAD OF YOURSELF.

You see, when most guys think about approaching women, they think in terms of "I have to
go over there, start a conversation, keep it going, get her number and then have this passionate
sex afterwards in the back seat of my Honda"

They get AHEAD of themselves.

But this makes them:

> Attached to an outcome
> Unsure of themselves
> and Feel under an imense PRESSURE to perform

The reality is that most women are not interested, are taken, married, their cat died, their dad just
cancelled their credit card and they're pissed...

So attaching yourself to anything MORE than those first words is INSANE.

You don't know what will a woman do, so don't plan too ahead.

I suggest you only plan 1 step ahead, which is "Let me SAY SOMETHING". And then be
open to all possiblities - from her not liking you and going away, to her saying
SOMETHING TO YOU BACK.

And you take it as it comes.

Doing this will make approaching women really easy for yourself. Because your focus is
not to approach them and have a conversation - but just to SAY SOMETHING.

Which takes away all that exess pressure.

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Are you an interior decorator? Because when I saw you, the entire room became beautiful.
Are you religious? Because you're the answer to all my prayers.
Do you have a Band-Aid? Because I just scraped my knee falling for you.
I'm not a photographer, but I can picture me and you together.
They say dating is a numbers game... so can I get your number?
Do you have a sunburn, or are you always this hot?
Is your daddy a Baker? Because you've got a nice set of buns!
Did you invent the airplane? Cause you seem Wright for me.
If I were a stop light, I'd turn red everytime you passed by, just so I could stare at you a bit longer.
I wanna live in your socks so I can be with you every step of the way.
I thought happiness started with an H. Why does mine start with U?
I seem to have lost my phone number. Can I have yours?
Hey baby, you must be a light switch, cuz every time I see you, you turn me on!
Are you a camera? Because every time I look at you, I smile.
For a moment I thought I had died and gone to heaven. Now I see that I am very much alive, and heaven has been brought to me.
Do you know what my shirt is made of? Boyfriend material.
Did you sit in a pile of sugar? Cause you have a pretty sweet ass.
Do you have a map? I'm getting lost in your eyes.
I don't have a library card, but do you mind if I check you out?
Are you an orphanage? Cause I wanna give you kids.
I was feeling a little off today, but you definitely turned me on.
I'm sorry, I don't think we've met. I wouldn't forget a pretty face like that.
My buddies bet me that I wouldn't be able to start a conversation with the most beautiful girl in the bar. Wanna buy some drinks with their money?
Are you a fruit, because Honeydew you know how fine you look right now?
Does your left eye hurt? Because you've been looking right all day.
I will stop loving you when an apple grows from a mango tree on the 30th of February.
Do you live in a corn field, cause I'm stalking you.
Sorry, but you owe me a drink. [Why?] Because when I looked at you, I dropped mine.
Are you a parking ticket? 'Cause you've got fine written all over you.
You look cold. Want to use me as a blanket?
Can I have directions? [To where?] To your heart.
I'm not drunk, I'm just intoxicated by YOU.
I was so enchanted by your beauty that I ran into that wall over there. So I'm going to need your name and number for insurance purposes.
Babe, your beauty makes the morning sun look like the dull glimmer of the moon.
I'm not staring at your boobs. I'm staring at your heart.
You're the only girl I love now... but in ten years, I'll love another girl. She'll call you 'Mommy.'
Can I take your picture to prove to all my friends that angels do exist?
I tried my best to not feel anything for you. Guess what? I failed.
Your body is 65% water and I'm thirsty.
Hey, don't frown. You never know who could be falling in love with your smile.
My doctor says I'm lacking Vitamin U.
Have you been to the doctor lately? Cause I think you're lacking some Vitamin Me.
Forget about Spiderman, Superman, and SPAM. I'll be your man.
Can I follow you home? Cause my parents always told me to follow my dreams.
Because of you, I laugh a little harder, cry a little less, and smile a lot more.
There are people who say Disneyland is the happiest place on earth. Apparently, none of them have ever been in your arms.
You look so familiar… didn't we take a class together? I could've sworn we had chemistry.
Fascinating. I've been looking at your eyes all night long, 'cause I've never seen such dark eyes with so much light in them.
Was your dad a boxer? Cause you're a knockout!
You're so beautiful that you made me forget my pickup line.
You shouldn't wear makeup. It's messing with perfection!
If I had a star for every time you brightened my day, I'd have a galaxy in my hand.
Damn, if being sexy was a crime, you'd be guilty as charged!
I was wondering if you had an extra heart mine seems to have been stolen
Is your dad a drug dealer? Cause you're so Dope!
Smoking is hazardous to your health... and baby, you're killing me!
There isn't a word in the dictionary for how good you look.
Me without you is like a nerd without braces, A shoe without laces, aSentenceWithoutSpaces
Is there an airport nearby or is that just my heart taking off?
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There is something wrong with my cell phone. It doesn't have your number in it.
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Excuse me, but I think I dropped something. MY JAW!
If you were a booger I'd pick you first.
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Excuse me, I think you have something in your eye. Oh wait, it's just a sparkle.
If I were to ask you out on a date, would your answer be the same as the answer to this question?
If this bar is a meat market, you must be the prime rib.
Are you lost ma'am? Because heaven is a long way from here.
I'm fighting the urge to make you the happiest woman on earth tonight.
Are you a campfire? Cause you are hot and I want s'more.
You're kinda, sorta, basically, pretty much always on my mind.
Put down that cupake... you're sweet enough already.
You wanna know what's beautiful? Read the first word again.
My love for you is like diarrhea, I just can't hold it in.
Hello, I'm a thief, and I'm here to steal your heart.
Hey baby you're so fine you make me stutter, wha-wha-what's your name?
I bet you $20 you're gonna turn me down.
I'm not actually this tall. I'm sitting on my wallet.
When I first saw you I looked for a signature, because every masterpiece has one.
I like Legos, you like Legos, why don't we build a relationship?
Baby I might not be Sriracha sauce but, I sure will spice up your life.

those are pick up lines,those are more cheesier than a roomful of cheese

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"Life is a chance,take all the ones you get".

As you'll see if you're in this game for a length of time, it's never about a 'line' per se. As an earlier poster said, if you're in a good mood, pretty much ANYTHING will work.

I'll give you an example.

A girl was sitting on a stool (daygame environment). I said "u got a nice little chair there."

Looks like a shitty "line", right? Here's the thing: It's not about what I said it was the manner I said it in, my mood.

Her reply (playfully): "That's because I've got this nice little bruise here." (She had hit her leg on something).

Then on to how she hurt her leg & I said "I'm sure I'm the FIRST person to have asked you that."

And onward the convo went.

U can get sparks going by saying Anything as long as you are coming from a place of being in the right state.

It's about your eye contact, your intensity, your playfulness, your body language, your sense of entitlement - WAY more than any particular words that come out.

So next time you see a cute girl, go up to her and say the first thing that comes to mind.

Let's say you're on the street and some guys across the street are shouting about something.

You could say to her "what's their deal". She replies, you reply. Boom, you're in.

Hey sorry to maybe revive a somewhat inactive thread but that last response actually really resonated a chord with me.

In all seriousness he's right! Reactions.
If somebody gave you a script you would definitely come off as artificial. Not the way to go about.
So back to reactions. Like oceanx was saying, you have to pick up (pardon the pun) on the environment and things surrounding so that you can respond appropriately.

Which brings me to what I was reading: http://attractioninstitute.com/how-to-f ... lirtation/. If you want to pursue it, these words I was reading on this actually puts extremely eloquently what we are talking about in flirting. It's all about going with the flow, you understand?

To start a conversation with a girl at the most common place, bar/club
It will require 2 things : A set of huge testicles(sorry for guys with small balls) and a mouth, do you have that?

Alright so here is the technique, ready: Go up and ask a random question with the intention of getting to know more about her.

Ie. Where are you from? Nice dress, where'd you get it? Do you come here often?

Or any random statement followed by question to get ball rollin

Ie. "I love your style(smile, eyecontact) whats your name?"

The point here is to create your own.

Most guys issue is not conversation, is just there lifestyle is so uncool they feel talking to a girl is a serious task.
Befor you go to a venue you should fix your lifestyle, love yourself first which takes a simple mental reframe and self management then go out and bust all kindz of nuts!

im dropping a clip about this next week.

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