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Hey everyone,
I'm 25 and have been in two long term relationships(3 and 5) already. Because of this, I have next to no experience approaching girls.
I'm a very talkative guy, and outgoing, but when it comes to starting a conversation with a stranger, I have NO IDEA what to say.
Tonight happened to be my wake up call; I went out with 2 old friends that I haven't seen in a while. Our waitress was honestly the best looking woman I have ever seen, bar none. By the end of the night, they had her laughing and flirting and hanging around the table and at any point would give her number to them if they asked. I interjected a few questions here and there but it was just blah. I guess I cared too much what she would think!
I'm heading the mall this weekend and will try and say "hi" to randoms there. I need to get past this and well, tonight was a huge wake up for me. It was ridiculous how this 10/10 was engaged full on in conversation with them(they're both mid 30's(her 21) so had no interest in actually getting her number. Maybe thats why it came so natural. Anyways, just giving some background.
Looking forward to learning a few things here!
Man.......
How come I can't get students who are willing to go out and just start trying to be social? You have the perfect attitude to do well. Keep it up. All the resources exist. Many of us have good blogs to help you for free. This forum has incredible advice. I am sure you will find your way. Good luck.