Hey,
first of all happy 4th of july to everyone.
I am new to this community and I got a short question.

I had a good text conversation even if I now that texting is not the way to go.
She felt uncomfortable with taking calls.
So at one point I made a big mistake. Never send negs via text/internet.

She wanted to make me feel jealous about her nice barbecue.
So I sent this stuuupid text:
I: 'Dont eat too much! Or you will be one of those walmart cart users one day haha.'
Her: 'its too late. I am already one of those'
I: 'Perfect so we can finally have a race. Whats the prize?'
Her: 'What do you want the prize to be?'
I: 'Topless barbecue. Either by me or by you'

I somehow feel to embarrassed to write the stupid stuff I texted. But a four days are gone now. You think I can somehow still get back to a good point or just leave it as it is?
Thank you

Drop the clowning around, send her this text:

"You never write, you never call, kids are asking where is mummy, what shall I tell them? :p"

Then a little bit of small and push for something to do together that will be near your house and your bed.

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back in game. thanks a lot!

Small talk*

You're welcome. Did the text work?

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Yes it did work. Because of different reasons (I am on vacation for part of the week) the date is next week. So I have to skip some time. And its her birthday at the end of this week. Any ideas to keep attraction?

Text her every 2 days until he meet

What to text her?

Use your initiative, for example, I had a good mean with my friend Last night , I took a pic of the food and sent it to the girl saying "jealous?"

Or just send her a funny meme that you see all over Facebook newsfeed

Then ask her how was her day bla bla

Keep doing stuff like that till the meet

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hey thanks for your help.
I left texting at a minimum level as I was very busy during the time. So today after a bit small talk I texted her like ' lets meet there at 8.'
She responded smth. like 'in the morning?'
I was like: yeah I normally go out in the morning having beer for breakfast
So she said: shouldnt you work?
And I said: Lets meet at 8 PM.

So since then there was no answer anymore. Would you text her tomorrow as we wanted to meet tomorrow or
just wait if she will answer anything otherwise just skip her?

That was a sloppy interaction. Don't text at all if you're ever in that lazy mindset again

There was an obvious mix up and you decide to go sarcastic and then suggest a weak meet.

Stop sabotaging yourself , if this girl as your perfect type, you wouldn't ever text like that

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