Salutations

I keep hitting the same sticking point which i cannot surmount. I live in a secluded resort city which is full of HB's but usually anything 8+ has a boyfriend. I can build great rapport and im gettting bombarded by IoI's but 8/10 times i ask for their digits they always respond with, "But i have a boyfriend." Usually when this is said i go back to being AFC and i will exit the set politley and gracefully. I know these women just want a good time but I cant come up with anything to say after i hit that point. Some advice would greatly be appreciated.

Happy Sarging

I WAS IN THE SAME SITUATION

I was talking to a girl and i asked for her ## and she said, "i have a boyfriend" This one was a HB 9.. but i asn't really into her, just messing around, seeing if i can get her number. Well, after she said that whole boyfriend thing, i said, "What makes you think i wanna go out with you?" She was stunned and laughed it off and i said, "so, it starts with a 561 (thats the area code around here) what are the other 7 numbers" and she gave them to me.. later tha night on AOL... i said, "I'm bored.. why dont you call me." She signed off and in 5 minutes, i got a phone call.

dude if you are in a resort city, just hit the tourist women. they wont hang around, and girls dont mind hookin up with guys when they know there is no commitment.

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I agree with pretty , if u want it to go easy hit the tourist women.

If u are up for a challenge , and have no moral objections to hit on a women with a Boyfriend. Then do a search for boyfriend destroyer routine, there are some nice post on this forum about it.

good-boyfriend-destroyer-rountine-vt713.html

Tough they might not always be that succesfull , hopefully they will prevent u from going into AFC-mode.

hope to have been of some help
keruli

Thank you for the responses.

In regards to the tourist women, yah they are super easy and have no qualms for 1 night stands but I got into the game to create my own harem and fill my phone full of booty calls.

After finishing "The Game" and doing some brainstorming with my buddies i have completley transformed from AFC to a Natural PUA in the span of a few months and have had tremendous results. If any of you are ever out in South Tahoe i'd love to kick it with some PUA's, shoot me an email at stevemart58@yahoo, lots of good bars and clubs and plenty of snowboarding and snowbunnies.

Happy Sarging

hell ya im up there all the time, ill be up there next week! wed-friday! cant wait to finally hit the slopes again.

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Sounds like the problem I used to have as far as the "I have a boyfriend" aspect goes. Whenever I got this pulled on me I completely shut down my game and basically just faded away not-so-gracefully. I have learned some effective information and theories about this though...

1. She might not even have a boyfriend, she just has this response on autopilot to keep the AFC's away.

2. She might have a "boy" who is a "friend" that she's not even really into...but that he fills that ROLE as a boyfriend. So she wouldn't really be lying but she's not really telling the truth. Role's are funny things

3. LTR's get stagnant. Believe me, I've had my share. They do. She's just waiting for the right guy with the right moves (PUA baby!) to come save the day.

BUT...as far as getting past these 3 little truths, here is some in-field advice that you can use the next time this comes up...

1. Ignore the fact that she says she has a boyfriend. Stack forward with your game.

2. Go the C/F route and say something like "Oh good! He can serve us breakfast in bed!!!" ( I like this one, it matches my personality!)

3. Keep talking to her, then start STICKING UP FOR HIM...this re-frames her mindset of him into a boring AFC!

4. Start building a foreboding plot line. One of my personal favorites is "You are lucky I like the guy, because if I didn't I would just take you away to a secluded island where we would just lay on the beach all day and relax in the cool water and watch the sunset..." It gives her a feeling of what MIGHT happen with you. The more romantic imagery you use the better!!!

So there's my schpeal on those so-called boyfriends (AFC's). Most importantly, just don't let it phase you. You are obviously a higher value male than he is. You just have to go under the radar to let her SEE that! Happy Hunting Comrades

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