Hey all,

long time reader, first time poster.

So here's my situation last night. 3 of us decide to hit a local club.
I'm the tallest of the 3, and, without trying to toot my own horn, am the alpha male, and probably an 8.5/10 on looks.

We decide were going to get bottle service at the club, but they've ran out of tables. They say they'll give us a bottle at the bar, if we want. We agree... We get to the bar and the bartender is an easy 9-9.5/10.

I say hi, she smiles, asks us what we want to drink, and gets the bottle. Nothing interesting happening really.

The remainder of the events of the night go like this...

I'm starting to get more and more tipsy from the drinks, although, its in no way noticeable. I'm not a loud drunk. She pours me and friends a few shots, and pours herself one too (go figure, right?). Cheers, bottoms up. She then comes up to me and tells me I have really nice eyes, asks me my background, etc... We talk very briefly (the music is loud and the club is packed).

I ask her what she does other than being a bartender, she says still in school, etc. She asks me the same Q, I tell her I'm a new law school graduate who practices in litigation law (yes, I'm a lawyer). She gives me this "yeah right" look... I smile, hand over my card, and turn my back to her and go back to where my friends are.

Throughout the rest of the night, we had these minor chit chats. She brings over the bill... I round up the $$ from everyone and we have an extra $25, which I leave for her as a tip. Meh. She gives me a big hug and 2 kisses on the cheeks. Okay, she's happy with the tip, big deal.

She then grabs a pen and writes down her number on a piece of paper and hands it to me. I smile... the night continues.

I text her "You're my 2nd favorite bartender on this side of the club"

A few mins later she comes back and says "you havent text me"... I show her my phone, and she laughs, cause I entered the wrong number (off by 1 digit). She grabs my phone and calls her number and then hands me back my phone... She clearly did this to get my #. She asks me if "we" (me and my friends?) want to go and grab something to eat after the club. I say sure... Its about 1:45 and she gets off at 2:30.

at 2am, my phone dies, and I dont see her anymore. I think she's in the back closing up... oh well. We get into my buddies car and I charge the phone... I fall asleep for a bit and then wake up. I see a text from her at 2:15am "are you waiting for me or what?"....

It's now 3am and I respond with "sorry, my phone died. Are you still at work?"


No response after that.

Havent texted her today, and not sure I will....

Opinions on steps to do next? Salvageable?

What to do next?

Charge your phone... ask her where the after party is & get her to introduce a girl to your guy friends as a backup if you let you phone die again.

The only thing you really need to do is charge your phone.

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Yes, charge your phone and don't leave for the night with the goddamn battery @ 30 percent, or half charged or whatever it was...

You had her, buddy.

invest in a portable battery bro. Its much needed on nights where you know ull b out till 3 or 4. And will prevent like the incident u had from ever happening again result= u get ur dick wet. I agree with Charles u did have her bro

APologize to her about your died phone. It's not good to keep women waiting there.

She probably a little piss of on you.

Ask her out & say you will treat her a drink for apologize..

From there, it's game on.

Wish you have an erotic night;)


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lol props to a fellow tall handsome young lawyer. life is good eh?

i've been in this scenario and more times than not the phone's death also kills the vibe. she was obviously very interested (trying to meet up at 3am, making sure you had her number, etc.) so you've got some leeway, but yeah if she's as hot as you claim there are guys all over her at all times, she can pick and choose.

i'd hit her back up and get a convo going, reference something funny from the night before. if she no-replies you're done and never text her again. if she bites, get a good, brief, interesting text convo going and if she's responding really quick and seems interested, wait a few hours then say you're going to (some place for dinner, not too nice, play like you've never eaten there and heard it's good and want to check it out) on (some weeknight) and she should come. if she can't make it but offers another time when she can, go for it. if she can't make it and doesn't counteroffer, she's lost interest.

good luck, counselor.

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