| I played this game about 6 years back on the old MPUA forum.
I felt like I was keyboard jockeying too much so I quit the sites.
I was successful for about 2 years and then I met one of the hottest, most interesting women my college could produce and I snagged her and we dated about 2.5 years… and now I'm back here.
Long story short, she wasn't treating me the way I felt I deserved (probably because I had gone all beta, letting the "love" get to my head), and I ended it. (My only redemption for having gone so beta)
We broke up about 6 weeks ago. For the first 4 weeks I was pretty upset, but then I remembered that I actually kinda used to be awesome and so now I'm trying to get back to that. I've been working out like crazy and hitting on girls whenever I get the chance (unfortunately I've also been extremely busy with work - 80 hr weeks, so my game has revolved a lot around Tinder lately…).
I've been thinking a lot about something I heard of called the "abundance mindset", not sure if that's something popular here, but it's the mindset that because I've been successful in the past and dated hot girls, that I should use that to my advantage by always keeping the mindset that no matter how hot, or how interesting the girl I'm flirting with is, I've probably had that level or better before… I think it's supposed to make it so that I get her qualifying to me rather than the other way around.
I just moved from the city to a town for work (also a reason I broke it off, I definitely wasn't going to put up with that shit long distance). It's a big adjustment. The city I came from had an abundance of sexy girls, but this bum-fuck town is full of obese bitches, so the hot girls are hard to come by, I'm contemplating allowing my base standard to decrease a little. I'm usually a quality over quantity guy, but quality is scarce here…
Thoughts?
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