Ok, so when I'm at school or something and there's an attractive women, when is it nessacery to give her eye contact? For example, if we're sitting in a classroom, and the teacher hasn't started the class yet, when is it nessacery to initiate eye contact? And how do I do it with confidence? Thanks for any replies.

Well what could be seen as confident eye contact is once you know she's looking across at you, just give a nice smile, (nothing over the top or cheesy) and hold her eye contact until she submits (she'll either look down or away).

The best way to approach this is to make it look like you've just caught her checking you out, not the other way around.

Calibration is everything.

Hope this helps

The best way to give eye contact with confidence, well one of the major reasons we don't give eye contact with confidence is because we're afraid of being rejected. So first I would get rid of any fear of rejection. Unfortunately the best way to do that is get rejected a few times. Once you get rejected a few times you won't take it so hard. And it'll make you more confident.

Shit man this takes practice, I used to get this weird "shaking head" issue where it felt like my head was like vibrating when i made eye contact. It was soo weird and socially not normal lol. You gotta feel somewhat confident in what you are saying, but I think its mostly a sexual thing. You gotta feel good about your chances with her, and feel confident she is into you - even if she isnt, believe she will be. I read someplace there is a "go-first" principle that works, if you go into an emotional state first the woman will follow.

a good inner game trick to use is not to think of is she like you while your making eye contact. But look her in her eye and think of whether or not YOU like HER!

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You should practise making eye contact with more people--your parents, your teachers, strangers walking down the street, customer service reps. It doesn't matter--the more you do it, the better you become at it. And when you talk to people, always make eye contact, though you can occasionally look away so that it doesn't appear that you're staring at them all the time.

The best way to make eye contact is to not look directly into both eyes, but to focus in between in the eyes where the bridge of the nose is located. That's where your eyes should be focusing on.

Don't get discouraged if the girl looks away when you make eye contact. Most people are by nature afraid of making eye contact.

Another thing I've tried and it seems pretty natural is to keep eye contact, but as you're talking etc. alternate your focus between both of their eyes, look at the left one, then a few seconds later look at the right eye.

This is keeping their eye contact but your eyes will move slightly, enough to notice but very subtle, it also will prevent staring or a 'no blinking' contest.

Just never break eye contact first.

Done.

Nothing wrong with a staring contest. In fact, it's highly recommended.

So your saying even if the girl is holding strong eye contact, maintain it til she breaks it?
Even if that stare contest lasts 10 minutes?

Basically you want to be the last person to submit without it getting weird or awkward.
It would be complimented by other non threatening behaviour.
Given the situation and its calibrated, I can agree with you on this one. kudos

Fuck yes, eye contact plus silence equals sexual tension. Let her break it.

Even give a cocky smile, see what she does, if she holds eye contact move slowly towards her and go in for the kiss.

Never break eye contact with a girl first!!!

why not just go and sit beside her and actually go talk?

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yea that or you can fractionate eye contact.

One of the most confident eye contacts you can make with a girl, is when she looks at you
to look her back with an attitude "What do you want?".

But not in a way where you're asking her a question (lol) but more like a guy is looking
at you, challenging you, and you look back at him with defiance like "Wtf do you want?"

This is also known as the look of the killer. And not, please don't give her a psycho look
like you're going to attack her, but just a gentle variation of "What?"

Get it?

So when she looks at you, don't get self-conscious or try to give her the "sexual" look...but
put yourself into a slightly confrontational mode, as if you're challenging her.

Hope it makes sense.

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