so I just moved back this girl I kinda use to fuck with kiss make out stuff like that, I just got reacquainted with her on facebook she was like omg where you been she gave me her number , I texted her , then she called me we talked for a while , then she said she wants me to come see her at the strip club she works at , I was like I don't feel right seein someone I got so much history with at the strip club , (im trying to not fall into the guy that's spends money on her thing), she was like that's where she is majority of the time and that she works a lot. I was like let me see if my friend wants to come , she was like why come by yourself, so I don't know , how to approach this situation , should I go , if I do what should I do , I don't wanna be that guy strippers look at as work .

Or maybe she just wants to show off on front of you. Get you horny for her and fuck you later that night? She's told you to come alone, will most likely give you a lap dance and shit. I doubt she'd charge you seeing as you used to fuck.. She might actually be insulted if you pay her. Just go and get a feel for it. If she's just sitting at a bar talking to you and not offering a striptease then fuck it, no harm done. Buy her a drink, talk for a bit and leave if you don't feel it. If she's dragging you into a private boot, grinding your junk and sucking your dick happy days.

I haven't seen her in like 8 years , I just want to see how to escalate , if need be .

You're at a strip club.
Escalating is extremely easy especially if shes the stripper

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Take it from another stripper, this girl is trying to hustle you. If you are trying to bang her, spending $$ on her in the club isn't the way to go unless you plan on spending several hundred to several thousands doing it.

Go there and bring some girls with you.

Let her know you're not some chump who's desperate. See what she's all about... If she's just after money, atleast you gave it a shot. Strippers really know how to please a man... That's for sure.

Beware she might just be doing "PR" job to bring clients. I've witnessed similar behaviours in bars and clubs, with PR-girls inviting all their friends in a flirty/emotional way, but really just for bringing more people..