i go on days 2 and i get a lot of girls asking me what i do for a job and in detail, if i own a car and what kind of car and my living situtaiton.i even had a few ask me how much i make.
i get slotted in provider category a lot and im not paying for their meals and we're just meeting for coffee. im just working as a low tier office clerk and i dress very average in gap, old navy type of clothes. i dont wear anything expensive but i get labelled as provider or one who would treat girls by taking them out to fine dining.

these girls are chinese and i'm also chinese but more westernized as i born in canada

how do i get rid of the provider setting

I can relate, I have a good job, dress better than those around me as well.

I tend to find I get those questions when I am not providing fun to girls. If you keep state pumping and making her qualify, she gets invested in you because you are fun. Your positive provider qualities can come out later. I am willing to bet you do not tease enough, nor do you escalate fast enough. That should help solve the problem. I would also bet that you are not yet in the provider role, you just have not escalated enough yet.

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