Seriously I've never been AMOG'd by a girl or a guy for that matter, I can't relate at all to you guys.

it happens in nightclubs where you have drunk douchebags. OR when you're dating a bitchy girl.

but most likely it's because of your nicer-guy game. i use funny-jerk game so i get a lot of those crazy,harsh responses lol

this is simply not true. When you challenge the AMOG properly, you gain greater grounding.
Furthermore, at no point are you reacting. Your biting remarks are masked under being social, having fun and humor.

Yes. Sometimes ignoring the comment is best. However this post is geared towards the situations where ignoring is not an option.

See this is where you and me differ. I read what you're written and think Dude > Friend

It's like that Back to the Future II movie where the main character can be pushed into doing absolutely anything by being called "chicken". Who wants to be that guy?

Assuming you don't have an actual hygiene problem, someone saying the stuff above would be funny. I would expect to laugh along, and I would expect the girl to join in, and a good time had by all.

If you do feel the need to respond, something like this:

"What's up... OMG dude you smell like you haven't had a shower in years!"
"I don't believe in them"

"I don't want you looking like you live in the streets like a homeless man."
"That's just my look"

"Take a bath. If you want you can use my urinal to wash yourself."
"Very kind"

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I avoid nightclubs like the plague, plus most the women in there are what I don't want. Never really dated a bitchy girl either, I've had girls have moments but I just pass it off with humour, and after give her a bit of a rough time.

But seriously? A guy challenging me over a woman of all things... I've never had that happen in my life. That said I am pretty jacked and considered quite attractive. I've had a few guys try to pickup my gf in the gym with my back turned, but I just tell them the deal, or trust her to hold her own and have a laugh about it. I usually have other guys trying to friend me.

If you cannot close the distance and look a dude straight in the eye while he's insulting you, then you have no social status in the first place to protect. You're simply beta as fuck.

In my case, any dude who starts an insult face-to-face goes silent and looks down when I go near him and look him straight in the eye without saying a word. Not once did this approach went so far; the dude starting the aggression cowered/backed down without initiating the first move to hit me.

This also works when a dude bumps into me physically. He's usually the first to say sorry or look down.

When a dude is pressing his chest against me as an obvious sign of aggression and yet not throwing any verbal insult, I simply nudge his solar plexus with my elbow and stomp on his big toe nail with the heel of my shoe. Not once did this escalated into a full blown trade of punches.

Face-to-face, an alpha male is a doer; not a talker.

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Why do you want to win an insult war ? I mean you win and then what ? You go home and wank to the thought of "Yeah I put that drunk bitch to her place" ?

What concerns me more is how you get responses from girls like mentioned in OP.

Never happened to me and I went out like every weekend to clubs for years. Can't really relate.

So you use physical intimidation in order to get anyone to back down and leave. You walk up to him with direct eye-contact as a sign of 'DON'T FUCKIN MESS WITH ME." And that leaves them looking down and speechless.

I can do that to frighten them into backing down. But what happens If I get into a fight???????
(1) I don't know how to fight. Like literally - no idea.
(2) Even If I knew how to fight, I don't want to fight because even if you win in a fight you still, often times, get hurt.

(1) You don't win anything except a higher-perceived social status from those around you and the girl herself. Which is necessary for attraction to exist. Repeat: this isn't an ego thing. It's a practical attraction tactic thing.

(2) Because you don't have funny-jerk-guy game. it can also happen if you've been dating bitchy girls for a while- they are comfortable enough to do say that. Also because those responses were exaggerated to explain the point.

What's physical about looking someone in the eye? You're not touching the insulter. If he touches you first (provided there are CCTVs around) to physically hurt you, then he's doing the physical intimidation; not you. It's win-win.

You're too afraid you'll get into a fight because your genes are saying, "You're NOT alpha. You're beta as fuck. Run away fast."

Here's a video uploaded by Skills from NatGEOTV which illustrates that your odds of getting into a fight is VERY slim if you asserted some alpha traits.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_TijDInhnEg[/youtube]

Moreover, if you're not willing to put in the hours and effort to learn how to intelligently defend yourself, then the problem is deeply rooted. No lines can take your fears away and make you alpha.

You'll always be a beta no matter what you say if you're not willing to put in the effort to be a "BOSS".

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@DJ_Z ..Out of curiosity i'd like to know how you ran game in the BDSM community

Here's the thing about BDSM that a lot of people don't get. Submissive people in consenting BDSM activity have all the true power. The "Dom" may seem to be in charge, but the "Sub" is the one who sets the boundaries and decides when enough is enough. It's also a consenting activity between adults, there is no winner or loser.

My problem with this discussion is the foolish notion that appearing to "win" an insult war gets you credibility in the room. Most people, at least myself and the vast majority of people I know, look at insult wars and think both people involved are incredibly immature. It's just like the idea of being an alpha. It's very easily confused with being an asshole or a bully. You can avoid letting people walk all over you before resorting to childish behavior.

1. Ignore the person insulting you.
2. Tell the person they are being rude and tell them that's enough
3. Inform an employee, preferably security, that someone is harassing you

Those should ALL come at a higher priority than engaging in a verbal or physical fight. That's the issue, as so often is in these threads that periodically come up regarding conflict. Ezo's thread on frame wars is about how you win by not giving a shit over anything else. Your happiness not being shaken by some random asshole is stronger than allowing him to change your mood for the day/night.

I said good day

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That's a very passive, immature way of handling conflict. The US made bomb runs on ISIS/ISIL/IS positions and it's not being immature at all. That's just a macrocosm on how you should react when someone gets physical and violent. There's no time to call security when that baseball bat lands on your head or when that knife plunges into your gut.

Again, in a face-to-face confrontation, you usually don't have to say anything. You just look the insulter straight in the eye. If he's beta, he'll back down and stop. Most guys are beta.

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