This really good looking girl drunkenly approached me, gave me her number etc. Started talking and a couple days later went out for just a casual dinner, there wasn't much room for it to escalate anywhere due to logistics and time constraints.. but it went REALLY well. We had legit chemistry and good energy between us. She seemed to be really blown away by it all and as we were leaving felt inclined to ask for a 'hug'... lol Everything seemed great. I setup a 2nd meet up that had MUCH more potential. 48 hrs later (after another great dinner full of great convo) she was at my place. ...and heres where the fuck up happened... For some insane reason I got it stuck in my head throughout the night that I was going to go right in for the kiss once I got her back to 'get it out of the way' and break the tension a bit. I don't know why or how that came to be a thing stuck in my head but it did. YA.. complete fail. We got downstairs and I said something like "so this is my place but I just gotta get this out of the way first" ... and she was like "uhhh? no". After that I couldn't shake the rejection and shit was fairly awkward (at least for me). She seemed to laugh it off and not think too much of it. She ended up straight up saying "its not like I didn't want to kiss you" etc and eventually I went for it again and we made out for a while. BUT during the make outs she would just start laughing out of nowhere, throwing my already bruised game way off. I didn't even pursue an F close I felt like such a chump... She drove over an hour each way to see me and stayed fairly late. I feel like I may have shot myself in the dick on this one. I had to fly out of the state for a couple weeks and during that time there was very little interaction between us nowhere near the level of flirting/texting that occurred beforehand. But now I'm back and have to right this wrong.. thoughts?

FYI: newly out of a relationship and having trouble with my inner game

Yeah... you kinda fucked yourself.

Atleast you know better for next time man.