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So just for a little background I wouldn't really call myself a pua of any sort as I have not spent much time in the community and am not too familiar with many terms. I did think this would be a great site however to ask for some advice with a chick I'm currently talking to. Here are the details:
-met this girl on tinder but we're now talking on fb and texting for about a week
-we're both college students on break and won't realistically actually have the chance to hang out until august
So this girl has asked ME to hang out multiple times when we get back. She keeps telling me how she wants to go sake bombing on date nights with frats in the fall more. I told her my frat does this often but that she has to prove to be a good sake bomber before I try to find her a date. She then says we should do some practice sake bombs when she gets back and that I won't be disappointed. I agreed but here's my problem: I have a girlfriend who I'm not just yet ready to break up with. Is there any way I can tell this new girl I'm in a relationship and still get her to hookup? I was thinking something like getting real close to making out so she really wants it and then stopping myself and being like "I'm not sure I can do this. You're an awesome person and I've had a great time getting to know you but I have a girlfriend *pause* you're making it close to impossible to stay faithful" and Gaige her reaction for what to do next.
Thanks in advance for the help guys! If I posted this in the wrong section my apologies :/
Stop being a little bitch and break up with your girlfriend if you're doing this. Don't be a selfish asshole and string her along because of your insecurities.
This is how an insecure woman thinks... that's why you see them relationship hop.
First you need to stop being afraid of the thought of being single... period. That's an Inner Game issue.
If you don't have the confidence that you can be a single man and find a woman to date that same day then you're using the material wrong.
Pardon me for being abrasive

It's only tough love!