Hey im new to this whole thing but so far i find it al absolutely fascinating. Anyway i met this girl and started with attraction as stated in the MM, last night we went out for cocktails and everythin was going gr8. The conversation was flowing and we were both laughing and hvin a good time. I thought i built enough comfort so i leaned over and kissed her, we kissed for around 10seconds give or take and went 2 my car so i could drop her off at home but in the middle of the trip her mood changed and she started getting weard. I caled her this morning and told her i had a great time and asked weather she wanted to go for coffee but she said she was busy. I like this girl alot and my buddy said it might be buyers regret and said i should w8t til monday lectures(2 days away) and approach here with alot of enery giving her a big hug and telling her how i missed her company. Could you guyz please help me out here coz i wna make this work.

Thx

I am going to assume that you both go the the same school or somthing because you will be seeing her again at a lecture on Monday. Instead of giving her a big hug and telling her that you missed her company, you want to do the exact opposite. Make a point to talk to her, but open other people (especially girls) around her and make her jealous. Basically, do a minor freeze out. Telling her that you miss her and making big displays of affection can been seen as creepy, or even desperate. But just saying a few generic things to her and than going to hit on the other hot girls in the room, she is now in a position where she has to earn back your attention.

You have to be willing to lose her for this technique to work, but if executed properly, she will more than likely come back to you since she is no longer the center of your attention.

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"If your not living on the edge, you're taking up too much space."

Listen to this guy, don't make yourself look desperate or starving for her attention. It's her that has the pleasure of spending time with you and she didn't, so be energetic and friendly with everyone but still acknowledge her, otherwise it'll look a pathetic ploy.

The following comments provide sound advice. One more thing, be sure you are not being a dick to her. Just give her a little bit less attention you would give anything else.

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he knows what he's talking aboutl... it does suck when you really like a girl because you do have to risk loosing her completely by freezing her out and making her jelous..... but as the MM states keep your options open