Hello,

I was wondering if you kino a girl and she doesn't look uncomfortable or respond negatively, I would generally think that it is a good sign. But could she just be responding like this because she is use to it, nice, or think of the person as a friend? What if she doesn't acknowledge it?

I was in a group, start with a riddle and the group got really into making riddles and patterns and guessing them. The girl and I were the only who didn't figure it out so I said that she and I would create our own riddle and not tell them. As I said that I put my arm around the girl and turned her around as we came up with a riddle for the other group to guess. I did this twice and she didn't try anything to escape or acknowledge it. Once we found a riddle we turned back around and I took my arms off her.

Thanks for all the help,

AFC

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I suppose it could, but that's why you escalate.

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Non-negative response to kino doesn't mean shit. Kino in itself is definitely an IOI. Some girls are submissive by nature and don't dare to say no, even if they don't like it. I've met girls like that before.

Kino as in touching a person's upper arm or shoulder is actually a "trick" that can be used by either a waitress or a salesman to make the customer feel better and to start liking the waitress or salesman better. It means "I will take care of you". It doesn't mean anything other than being a friendly gesture. It's a bit seductive though, but only to a certain limit.

Do not escalate if you're not sure it's OK! You need to get IOIs (more obvious than non-negative response to your kino) before you escalate. Reason? The girl may accuse you for sexual harassment! Less dramatic than that is that you can give her an impression of being a try-hard, and she might loose interest. It's all about doing it just right - finding that balance.