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I went to the city centre today, and as soon as I came off the bus, I saw an ideal girl walking on the other side of the walkway. It was perfect for me to approach because she was on her own, there wasn't so many people around and she looked 'open' for an approach. But, I just chickened out!!! In my head, I was saying 'I must approach... I must do it' but approach anxiety must have stopped me! She was walking the same direction as me for about 20-30 seconds so I had the perfect time until she went into a store and I moved ahead. WHY DO I DO THIS?! How can I STOP hesitating and just say, "FUCK YOU, LETS DO IT"?
Good day my friend.
First, I would like to say: I feel your pain. I truly and sincerely do. Isn't it the most frustrating thing ever when that happens? You see a stunner walking down the street, and you feel an urge inside you to act... And yet, like most, you restrain yourself. Why?
Let us dig deep into what is happening behind the scenes, in the depths of your conscious. When you know what fuels you, you will be able to act in whatever the circumstances.
What do you want?
This is a huge question that you must consider. Because if you are in this to find your dream girl, that perfect 10 of your dreams, then you need to be ready to act - or someone else will. If there is one thing I learned about the relationship between us and the universe is that the universe will always provide what you want, but it will put it just outside your reach.
This time she was alone and the situation was perfect, but next time, she might be surrounded with friends, or guarded by 4 mean looking men, or shopping, or eating or even on a date!
This is your life!
This is your life dude! I don't care what she's doing, I don't care who she's with, I don't care if she's standing next to Bill fucking Clinton. She's there, in front of you. The universe put her in front of you for a reason. Do you have the balls to reach out and take what's only meant to be yours?
Love
Love love love and more love, brother. That is the key. Do you love women? Most men say they do but do they really? For example, if you are starving and I put you in an all you can eat buffet, you would just run over to the stand and full your plate with every flavour. If I locked you in a room full of beautiful women, would you behave the same? Or would you clench up and get nervous. Would you hide your desires like a child in shame?
She wants a man
Not a child. She wants a man who knows what he wants, and nothing is more sexy than when a man wants her, with all of his being. You need to tap into that
man. You have it. It's there!
Next time you see a woman you are attracted to, pay attention to what happens in your body. Notice the feeling of excitement in your gut. Notice the urge to move in her direction, the burning desire to be around her. Then pay attention to your thoughts, and how they begin to stream in and convince you not to go. Notice what excuses your mind feeds you and recognize them for the lies that they are.
Exercise
This is your homework from now on: When you see a beautiful woman and feel that urge, in between the time you feel that aliveness in your gut and when your thoughts begin to kick in (usually 1-3 seconds), just let your feet do the talking. In other words, DONT think of anything else: just move your left foot forward, then the right, then the left and so on until you are in front of that girl.
DO NOT let your mind talk you out of it, you only have a 3 second window before that happens. Make it a habit!
To your success my friend!
Mack
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