Hello, my name is Dontaye, I'm a 20 year old black male living in a mid sized college town in Oklahoma, I'm into a lot of different things, of course Metal, as well as many other genres, I am a big gamer but I never let that get between my social life. I am here because, well the same reason as everyone else. To learn to attract the women I truly desire. I have many faults in my game though. At places like house parties or concerts, whenever I'm drinking, it seems that women are very attracted to me. When I drink my natural game somehow comes out, but the problem is that I'm sober its the opposite story. I've always been very shy until I get to know people, and when it comes to meeting women, my shyness turns into slight anxiety, and my mind just goes blank every time, I won't realize the obvious signs and signals a woman is giving off until its too late. And by then I'm smacking myself, like WHY? HOW DID I NOT REALIZE THAT. My goal here is to learn how more clearly and easily recognize these things, and also, I definitely need to learn how to work my mid game and closing the deal

you first need to learn how to be comfortable around attractive woman when sober or you can forget the endgame business. You need to approach and talk to as many woman as possible, even if your not trying to pick them up, this will help to imrpove your issue.