Dear PUA's,

Yesterday I had exam party were everybody was in suit and the girls in the most good-looking dresses.
I had in my mind to hit on that one and only girl.

So I enter the club, I greet everybody that I know. I see her, I say she looks well-dressed and will come back later to her, but first I have to greet everybody.

Everyone was dancing, I was dancing with the social circle of that girl(also my biggest social circle). But also with girls and boys of different social circles. I don't want to brag, but I am sure that I everybody saw that I was the man with the best dance moves, the most social, the biggest smile, and the most seductive. I was very confident.

I searched for eye-contact, but she didn't looked that much back. I did my first serious move to do a sexy dance with her(where you stand in front of each other and can kiss one another). She liked it, but she did not want to look in my eyes.
And there something strange happens, her girlfriend joint and was laughing with my girl. And I was not supposed to hear it but my girl said to the other girl: "I am now certainly that he likes me". Well on a certain moment I let her go and we danced normal again.

Later I did my second move. Again sexy dance, and I started to kiss her neck. She said: what are you doing?
I said that I want to kiss her. She responded that she would not do that in a event like this.

So that was the most important of the evening. I had fun, and I feel still good and confident. Can somebody say were I went wrong. Or is this girl just strange?

I think eye-contact was one thing that was missing. But I did my best, if she don't want to look at me, I think it is over, how about you guys? Is there a LMR in this sarge?

I have seen this girl only two times earlier. The second time I didn't talked to her that much. But the first time I thought she wanted me(I was to high to run game, to bad).

Thanks for reading and thinking with me,

Dzifa

Sorry for my English, I come form the Netherlands and I am not only working on my game, but also my English

The biggest mistake you made was kissing her in front of all her friends. You should have grabbed her by the arm and led her away from her friends so that she could be herself without fearing her friends were judging her. You need learn how isolate your target.

I think you done well. You made two bold moves and she understands your intentions. Give her opportunity to respond. Continue to pursue her even if she doesn't. However, don't be a chump. Whether you think you're making progress or not, don't do odd jobs for her or incur a large expense. You're the predator and she's the prey. Do it on your terms or not at all.

do you think the woman is "strange" because she wouldn't kiss a stranger in public? foxe_hunter is right (again) just isolate. be aggressive, but do not force. do not expect every woman to want to jump your bones just be cause you are "the man with the best dance moves, the most social, the biggest smile, and the most seductive". although some will . the good ones will probably not be so open about it.

Indeed I forgot to isolate in the haste of the moment. Next time I will do that just:
- "Let's go outside. I want some fresh air."
- "I can't hear you in here! Let's go outside and talk."

But is isolating that much important on the dancefloor? I always thought that it was more a thing for house party's.

I am also a bit confused now, because I can remember that I watched a movie about a pua that said that isolating was bullshit, because girls have also that competition feeling. Although almost every pua says men should isolate.

So I will isolate the next time.

Thank you guys, I appriciate this!

I do agree with the gentlemen above me. In such an event, it's pretty unlikely that she'll let you kiss her in front of all her/your friends.

Although when you isolate her, have this in mind: you're taking her out of the dancefloor, out of the party and the "fun", so once isolated and unless she's really into you, you've got to be more interesting than the party or she'll get bored easily and want to go back.