So pretty self explanatory. I've been with this girl for less than half a year now and I CONSTANTLY make the advances for sex. We have a lot of sex, but it's always me telling her what to do and me making the moves. Also, she's not open to giving head often unless I throw my dick in her face and said she doesn't like cum in the mouth, which most of us would argue is one of the best places to do it.

How can I open this up more? Make her feel more into it? I have so many options with other women around me because of the confidence I've gained in this relationship. I'm trying to internalize that confidence so I'll have it on my own not just when I have a gf. I'm going down on her all the time and we 69, but I don't know, some things feel forced by me like she's just not that into it.

Any suggestions? Advice?

Cheers,
Mellow

Sounds like you have a good thing going - be careful not to ruin it by pushing too hard on her head, I mean, on this point...

In all seriousness though, make sure you're clean, don't smell, shave it if that's what she's into, etc. I mean, if you were gonna suck a dick - would you want it to smell like shit and get a bunch of hair in your face? I find that I get the most success getting girls to go down when 1) they're at least a little drunk and 2) I recently took a shower.

^Agreed. Make sure you don't smell or taste funny. My boyfriend once got me to do it after he's just finished. Didn't taste nice. And I gave him head a lot less after that time.

I've also heard that drinking pineapple juice makes the taste of cum a lot more bearable.

yeah, pineapple juice and vodka, have her drink it though. lol

even though it might seem as a chore or too much of a routine thing for most couples, i do have to flush it before we do it every time unless I took a shower less than 20-30 ago. I guess it is what it takes.

Pineapples / its juice is definitely a thing for her to taste over your cum. Helps a lot. If she is still uncomfortable with her mouth full of jizz, make her jerk you off and cum on her body, you know it.

From another perspective, you have to make sure she receives her orgasms as well. That makes her want more, feel more horny, this may make her do everything to get sexual with you, including giving head. Work on her dirty mind, as quite some girls see it as dirty/nasty/slutty (in a positive sense) ting, and again there is nothing better than your sexual parter behaving a little (or a lot, depending on your preferences) slutty in bed.

At the moment, giving head is the most sexual we can get with my girlfriend, and it is 60:40 chance of me asking her to do it, and it is somewhat fair enough as she is not getting her part of the thing due to physical and psychological reasons.

Good luck

First step: You need to stop thinking "dirty" and start thinking more "playful" and "sensual".
You need to introduce bjs as part of a sexual game. Don't force her. You need to make her like bjs.
Go buy yourself some flavoured condoms. Chocolate can be good. Make sure they taste good. Then tell her to give you a bj with that condom on. Give her praising while she does it. Tell her where you like her to lick you. Teach her and make her feel that she can be an expert in bjs and giving you pleasure. Make her feel good for making you happy with words. Women we like words... tell her how good she is.

Associate bjs with sensuality and expression of passion of how much you like each other... and you can even make it kinky. One day tell her to give you a bj without a condom with whipped cream maybe? Give her lots and lots of praise. Don't cum in her mouth if she doesn't want to. Respect that.
At some point bjs will be part of your sexual routine and she will be more relaxed about them. Praise her everytime she gives you a bj. When she will be comfortable ... then bring it up as an idea to start finishing on her body after the bj ... so you get her used to like it. Try it in the bath or at the shower first so she won't get put off by the stickiness of cum.
At the final stage introduce finishing in her mouth as something new to try... Get her excited. Tell her that in life... you should try everything once ... Make sure you eat lots of pineapple so you taste good.
It is all in her head that finishing in her mouth is revolting or bjs are revolting. Once she done it then she will be more alright with it.

There is some really good advice in here. Does pineapple juice really help?! I can't believe that has any effect at all. I know I don't smell we usually have sex and mess around shortly after showering. I do tell her it feels good and she's getting the hang of it, but the body language just doesn't look like she's that into it. I go down and her all the time so it's sort of a selfish thing I suppose expecting the same in return. The first night we slept together I came in her mouth but she jerked away because she didn't like it at all. This is the only chick I've been with that's like that, which is weird because she's also the hottest, which I thought would mean more experience. Every other chick I was with loved to blow and spit/swallow which made them more attractive in a sexual way.

What you are picking in body language is her fear that you are going to finish in her mouth. For some girls to let a man finish in your mouth is a really big deal. I am one of those girls.
For me to let someone do it is the ultimate "i love you" thing.
No idea if pineapple helps with the flavor but this is what they say.
I have let only one guy finish in my mouth, my boyfriend. So I don't have lots of personal experience on that.

Doesn't surprise me ^

I suppose all girls that swallow their bf's jizz more than once in a week is a 'slut'?

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It shouldn't surprise you PEBBLE. I am very selective with whom I sleep and what I do with him.

All the other boys finish in your ass?

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Where does the jizz go when one gets blown, but the girl does not want it in the mouth?

^I hold it in my mouth, try not to taste it, while I run to the nearest sink/toilet. Because, honestly, jizz tastes crap.

No. Guess again.

in the condom or on his belly.