Hi everybody,

its been a while since I've been active in the PUA community.

Let me tell you where I can need some advice. I met a girl last week in a bar and the interaction was pretty good. We talked for quite a while, had some fun and we came to point were i was about to kiss her. She told then that this will not happen tonight, she said she was too old for that stuff (bla bla) A couple of minutes later we had a staring game going on and to make me smile she randomly kissed me on my lips. 10 Minutes later she had to leave because they wanted to meet with some other friends somewhere else. The number close pretty much came from her side and she said I should def shoot her a text in the next couple of days. So after this I was pretty comfortable that I'll see her again for a date.

So thats what I did, I texted her the next day:

Me:
You really played hard to get tonight
Her:
Oh how do you feel this morning
Me:
It's getting better had a god damn conference call 8am this morning
What about you?
Her:
I woke up still drunk. Lol but now I'm suffering a hangover.
Me:
What time did U get up?
Her:
Not at 8 am like you. At 10
Me:
Having lunch now... The hang over cure is coming up.
Her:
Hahaha I'm about to take a nap before my class.
I just had a late birthday lunch with a friend. Hangover still there though
Me:
Get some Gatorade and it will magically disappear
U going out tonight?
Her:
Too much sugar. I got coconut water instead and spiked it with tequila lol
No I'm not. I babysit tonight but I really don't go out often. I use to go out all the time when I was underage now I don't care for it.
Me:
So I guess I have to ask you out for dinner then
Her:
I guess you have too.
I'm actually going to be out of town. I'm up for dinner when I get back.
Me:
Are you free tomorrow mrs grownup ?
When are u going to be back?
Her:
Haven't decided yet but I have to be back by Tuesday afternoon
Me:
Where r you going to? My boss is coming to town next Monday but we will figure something out
Her:
Home to hang out with my mom.
Me:
Ah nice well let me know when your back in town. I hope you Already have a good place in mind to grab some food!
Her:
Depends on what you like to eat.
Me:
Do you like sushi?
Her:
Love love sushi
Me:
Have u been to Place X?
Her:
I haven't actually
ME:
I really like Place X when it comes to drinking and eating. We should go there and get some sake
Her:
In down for some sake!!
Me (The day when shes supposed to back in town):
Are you back in town and free to hangout tomorrow?

And she didn't reply on that text, do you guys have an idea what I could do now? Or any advice how i could improve my text game the next time?


Cheers

Maybe you should have kept up contact with her in between your first meeting and the date, since you didn't set an exact day and time.

Or, set an exact day and time so she has to show up

you might be right, any suggestion on what to do next?

It's tough with text messages because if she doesn't reply and you keep texting, it makes you seem desperate..

Maybe some of the pros can get you out of this jam, but I've got nothing

not an expert by any means, but i think you should've opened her casually, asked about her stay with her moms and said something like "looking forward to dinner with you tomorrow" rather than being directly asking if she was free. I would've assumed you guys were just on for dinner and proceed from there