Girl was in between dickish/abusive 2 year boyfriend who was always on and off and me- long time friend who just got back in touch. we were FWB for a good 2 weeks, and both of us knew it was a fling.

She comes over and says "I just want to be friends with both of you until I make up my mind"

I go NC for 2 days, text her this morning hey, then I saw 2 he's ago she tweets at her ex "thx babe for fixing my flat tire" (she tweeted before I said hey)

Conversations really got boring. She's also out of town for a couple days. What to do?
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Man, you've lost.

Chick was in a 2 year relationship playing emotional yoyo with her ex/current boyfriend and you go NC? Haha. She's on an emotional rollercoaster with that guy. It's a very powerful tool and she'll come back for more most likely due to lack of closure. Meanwhile while you were NC as a nobody she was getting endearing messages from her ex about meeting up and making his move in person, reminding her of how great they can get on... While he's doing this you basically bow out.

I was in a really similar situation a few years ago. Girl was on/off with ex for years, he eventually cheated on her and broke up with her. She dates another guy, they break up, and I start hooking up with her. Things were great, then enter boyfriend #1, he starts texting, calling etc. I back off, ultimately go no contact and he wins her. Sometimes going no contact and playing it cool can work, but usually works when the girl is truly emotionally/physically invested in you. This girl wasn't and your no contact backfired. Chalk it up to lesson learned....now you can go no contact and move on.

Kk I texted her. We've known eachother 7 years, so keep things cordial is the plan of attack, then maybe when they're "off" we'll be on. Moving on to cute girl I met at a party last night

Have multiple girls. But yeah, you lost.

sometimes male animals competing for the same female try to scratch or bite each others' penises off. couldn't hurt - you've got nothing to lose !