I've had a hard time finding any, though there's a plethora of # closes there in general. My key issue, you see, is building attraction, and I seem to be lousy at it.

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You don't need cocky funny to build attraction.

Be commanding, challenging and masculine. Don't seek her approval, disagree with her to create tension etc.

Stop being a pussy basically.

Fair enough, but getting in that frame of mind has been hard. I don't even get the concept of warmup sets, even.

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Your problems are much deeper than just "I'm not cocky-funny enough".

Cocky-funny only works if you don't care about the outcome and don't care about the woman's reaction to your jokes.

You could get a girl to cry with laughter all night, but it won't lead to anything if you're not fully confident and seductive. If you don't escalate physically, she will still suck another guy's cock at the end of the night, even if she thinks you're the funniest cheekiest guy she's ever met.

If you want to learn Cocky&Funny I recommend you check out
"Triumph, the insult comic dog".

Just go on YouTube and search his videos.

I learned a lot from his busting balls of people. One of my favorite is his infiltration
of the line in front of the release of Star Wars sequel.

For example, he see's a pregnant girl and asks her ""So when is he due?"

And she's like, August 13th

And he says "Wow, that's the last time he'll ever see a female genitalia..."

or he says to this one girl, "Look darling, you have your own pick of the choice....
of men who have no idea how to please you..."

I learned a lot from this guy. Recommend it a lot.

But also I want to mention, although it's great that you're trying to create attraction
with cocky and funny, there is more to it than just being cocky and funny.

For example, creating authority with a girl is something really important.

I wrote a post about it a while ago, you can see it here

1-thing-a-woman-wants-you-to-do-when-ta ... 34717.html

So besides learning about being funny, learn some principles of creating attraction or tools.

Some of them are:

> Push-Pull
> Showing Boundaries
> Teasing
> Framing

etc.

Play with this.

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Escalating physically, unshakeable confidence and heavy eye contact consistently gets me laid. You don't need to be funny to make girls wet. Leading, being challenging, commanding, fearless and masculine will get you laid.

If you ask girls which famous guy is their "dream guy", what percentage of them would choose a comedian? I'm not saying be super serious and abandon your sense of humour but you cocky/funny routine guys over-analyse game to such a ridiculous level. Getting laid is easy, why complicate it with a comedy routine?

Trying so hard to be funny also runs the risk of putting you in a weak frame where you are 1) relying on the girl's positive reaction before escalating 2) focusing on entertaining her instead of seducing her and 3) making the girl unsure of your intentions, so she may frame you as 'cool funny guy, love him! but would not fuck him'.

I get that some guys can be cocky/funny and still pull. I'm just saying you don't need it to pull and it won't make the girl find you any more or less sexy, so why bother trying so hard? If you're naturally funny already, be your usual funny self. If you're not, don't bother trying to be something you're not. As long as you have a sarcastic smile on your face, you don't need cocky/funny.

Girls are dumb, they laugh at anything. It's not an achievement to make a woman laugh.

Yeah but if you're lighting up their RAS they've got their pleasure sensors attached to you if they're laughing. Women laugh for completely different reasons in comparison to men.

I sure do light up their clitoRAS. With my tongue. Not my jokes.

This.

When a girl feels horny for you, she'll laugh at anything. It doesn't matter what you say even when it isn't funny at all. I say straight to the face of girls that: "I want to spurt my cum all over your face." and they just laugh so hard and touch me all over.

Nah. You should be sexual and playful instead; not cocky and funny.

If your t-level is high enough, girls will laugh at anything and start rubbing their breast against your arm. All you have to do is covertly rub on those nipples, and when you feel girls' skin getting warm enough, isolate them to a private place where you can fuck them.

If your t-level is low, I think it would be more efficient to build that high instead of learning how to be cocky and funny.

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Are you trying to make girls laugh or are you trying to fuck them?

This pseudo science about RAS which is spread by RSD needs to stop. Women's pleasure sensors are attached to all sorts of things. Cute puppies, new shoes, ice cream. Not just lame jokes from some guy she met in a bar.

Nothing hooks a girl in stronger than an earth-shattering, quivering orgasm. You can activate her brain with words all you want. But the real magic button is her clitoris. RAS may affect arousal somewhat but its main purpose is to regulate sleep and to treat ADHD. Tying a girl up and getting her on her knees to suck your cock will make her wetter than entertaining her with jokes.

All this coming from RSD Julien's biggest fan.

SO, it's just my intent, then...I haven't acted with enough force, enthusiasm, or confidence. I attended a college graduation, and just shook hands with all the graduates, applying the three-second rule, and was getting in a better state of mind, not worried about rejection, the look on the girls' faces was much superior to what I've seen in the past.

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Give 'er a bitta dis, lad.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pDbFTZ2O440

Hunter_Foxe is right. You don't need to be cocky and funny to build attraction. Actually I personally find those cocky-funny guys rather annoying (no offense) but it's a fact that most girls love them bc they are very effective when comes to create sexual tension. But you need to set your priority straight. Like the experienced PUA above me said, do you want girls to find you funny or do you want to get laid with them? If you were naturally funny I'd say yeah go ahead but if it's not the case why not use skills that you are good and confident with and take advantage of them to get girls to be attracted to you? Remember PUA are lazy. They use the easiest and possible way to get girls. They don't take the long road to get from point A to point B, they always take shortcuts the get there. You need the right mindset if you want to be successful in the game.

AKA the mindset creates the giggles which are sexual tension expressed. No giggles, no tension. Lousy attitude. Mindset, though, is a head issue, and I'm working through that, as mysarge count rises, but I'm still trying to angle right.

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