| I don't know man, being anything (gay, bi, badass, huge cock, mysterious etc.) is a positive in my eyes.
With this "reputation" you instantly have a personality and some mystery surrounding you...and girls love that. Use that to your advantage.
Of course they are messing with you. Sometimes guys feel like they need to even the playing field by bashing other dudes. Plus, in this day and age, being gay/bi is NOTHING compared to what it used to be in terms of stigma. So how cool are these assholes sounding when they shit on somebody being bi or gay? Girls aren't going to respect people like this as much as they used to.
My advice is, don't be vehemently denying or addressing any of these rumors. Just go about your life and laugh off the d-bags. If anything, this whole thing just makes you look secure and masculine to the women out there. Once you embrace what these guys are saying instead of seeing the negatives of it, is when you really come across alpha...much more alpha than guys who are just insecure.
An example I always use is when somebody said that I was a virgin. I wasn't a virgin at the time (and you aren't gay or bi), but I took it in stride and just kept saying "well hey, what are you gonna do right?" And girls kept asking me if I was really a virgin and I kept saying yes almost in a sarcastic way, but it still confused them. PLUS, i wasn't ACTING like a virgin. I knew what I was doing. So that created even more intrigue to girls because they are thinking, "This guy doesn't act like a virgin...I wonder if he's really a virgin?"
So here we go, when girls start wondering "Hmmm, I heard Gstring was gay...but he doesn't really act gay." You win. Because people are talking about you and in the end, will try to get to know you in the form of trying to figure out which side of the fence you are on. This is GOOD. Because this gives you the opportunity to meet/interact with different people, effectively broadening your social reach. This is GOOD. Most people want any kind of attention at that age, this is good attention because you have control over it.
Does that make sense?
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