I use online dating on a regualr basis but don't seem to get anywhere. All the fit and attractive girls only seem to want to chat. However there was this one really attractive girl which messaged me saying I was handsome and she wanted to chat. we have messaged each other about 8 times now. Just asking general questions like what career she does, what type of guys she goes for, where she stays, about my status.

When is the right time to ask her out? I don't want to be too forward and scare her off. What should I ask next? Should I ask her number? I don't want her to lose interest.

Hey Moose,

Online dating is a great way to get started or in my case it is a great way to filter out the crazy bitches from the quality without having to browse the selection at the bar.

You can go as fast or as slow as you want with women, if you are thinking you should ask her... then mention you are going to grab a bite to eat on (insert day @ about time) & "you should come by" it sets you up to be already doing something & you really didnt ask her you invited her to come along.

Get the difference between that & "can I buy your affection?"

Have a mental list of things that interest YOU, things that YOU enjoy talking about... & focus on those.

Ask her about random things at the restaurant but act as if you are totally comfortable... as if she is an old friend you are hanging out with.

Make sense?

Message me if you want more.

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Thanks for your help, i just always find with the attractive women online that it fizzles out too quickly. I hope I get a date out of this girl. What are your thoughts on kissing a girl on a first date? I have to be honest I've never had a second date with anyone who I've met online I think partly because I've not made a move on a girl and she isn't interested.

Read some theory

Read some blogs

Watch some vlogs

Tons of content out there for free.

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