No but your posture is very weak.

Honestly, if gays hit on you they're probably the masculine type looking for a submissive bottom guy and that's why they're approaching you. Don't take it too personally, it happens all the time if you're in or near an area that's frequented by gays a lot. Gay men are just really forward and they'll be forward with straight men too if you're on their "turf." Women on the other hand seldomly approach men because men have to approach them.

If you're 38 and you've never had a girlfriend you should get out there now.

If you don't hit on women and experience rejection, you haven't built up enough reference points to make yourself understand exactly what women respond to. There are tons of books written on pick up/dating and I suggest you look up some of the most popular ones and get started, but facial looks are at the bottom of the list for what women look for in men. I even remember the girls that were the most in love with me for my looks always thought I was a narcissist because the body language displayed by acting this way is very vain and self absorbed.

As many books will state, women's attraction to men is built up from an evolutionary set of triggers that past generations have responded to in determining the most attractive males. If you could see how women view men through their own eyes you'd probably get a distorted image of your own reality. Handsome or ugly, guys that walk around in that "sulk" cool position blend into the background while the more animated men get all the attention. That's just how it is. Behavioral. Many PUA boot camps will spend an entire day or so making men degrade themselves and smash up their self image just to destroy this false belief that looks aren't a social construct and have nothing to do with women's attraction. Granted, I'm not saying looks don't play a part but it's at the bottom of the list for someone practicing game specifically. Read up on it.

1. You look gay in this one: http://s1188.photobucket.com/user/Picol ... 4.png.html

2. Your eyes are kinda red here. Clear eyes are signs of good health and hence sexual attractiveness. http://s1188.photobucket.com/user/Picol ... 1.png.html

3. Your bird is kinda small. There are natural ways to make it bigger. http://s1188.photobucket.com/user/Picol ... z.png.html

4. You're sort of stooping here. Not a very dominant body language. Sit straight for a more masculine body language. http://s1188.photobucket.com/user/Picol ... 1.png.html

5. This is a closed, back off, aggressive kind of body language. Girls will not want to approach you if your arms are folded like this. When you're folding your arms, the dominant body language is to bring out your hands; not tuck them in and hide them. http://s1188.photobucket.com/user/Picol ... n.png.html

Of course, the best way to make girls approach you is to relax and let your arms dangle by your sides; preferably with open palms. http://s1188.photobucket.com/user/Picol ... n.png.html

6. Now, this is good sexual body language when you're triangulating your cock with your hands. What's wrong though is your sunglasses. If you're posturing this way, take off your sunglasses and look girls right through their pupils to dominate them. You'll know that you have dominated a girl when she looks down and then looks back up again to your eyes. Moreover, when she looks down (since you're triangulating your dick), she'll take a look at your crotch which will trigger her to imagine the size and shape of your dick. When she looks back up again, you'll know that her pussy's starting to get wet when her pupils are dilating to around 80%. That's your cue to hold her hand. http://s1188.photobucket.com/user/Picol ... 0.png.html

Your hips in this picture is kind of feminine too. You can remedy this with bulking up your shoulder. Do more shoulder exercises.

7. Your face is so clear in this one. http://s1188.photobucket.com/user/Picol ... 0.png.html

To have a rougher looking face, enroll in a boxing gym and get a few shots to your face here and there. If you have a few scars on your face, your masculinity shoots up a few points higher.

8. Looks like you're wearing lipstick on this one. http://s1188.photobucket.com/user/Picol ... f.png.html

Again, your face is unusually clear here. Roughen it up a bit. Maybe go to the beach and feel the wind on your face.

9. This is so FUCKING gay. http://s1188.photobucket.com/user/Picol ... 1.png.html

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Maybe you live or stick around sh*t area? Im not gay but you look allright.