The reason of this post is that i'm tired of people patronizing me, not saying what they really think but what they think that i would like to hear, just be blunt for ***** sake I'm not in need of anyone's validation or being an attentionwhore just clueless. Do i look gay? or creepy? Do i have chump or nice guy written all over my face? Also some strange **** has been happening.

I've been constantly hit by both bi and gay men,both online and in real life, and i find it frustrating because i really love women. I'm not homophobic, i respect sexual orientations, but i am 100% HETERO. I dont dress,talk or act gay, Women ignore me while gay men check me out. I even have a profile in badoo and tagged (ex hi5) and women visit the profile and dont say anything.when i politely engage in some conversation, they are either agressive/evasive and act like they are superior. Votes on pics: i get from 4.0 to 8.0, it really varies that much but even those women who give high votes dont wanna talk. On the other hand gays and bis are very straightforward,wtf!!! I told them to eff off, but they just keep being a pain in the ass.

i have a job that i love,i do sports (cardio mostly,i'm trying a cutting diet) i have friends, is just that i cant find a girl who at least talks to me or takes me seriously.am i that creepy looking? i'm funny,i'm not needy or desperate, i dont put them on a pedestal... one girl said i have a baby face or whatever the hell is that.

i have pics but the site wont let me put them

How many female friends do you have?
Are they married?
How many singe ones in your social circle?
What do you feel is holding you back from your goal?

You say only gay men approach you, how many WOMEN do you approach?

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i broke with my gf a year ago, and since thngs went down the drain. i didnt stop doing what i liked though. i like to be with friends,going out, go clubbing, bars, mostly @ weekends, i have 2 wingmen with me but most women we approach are there to give rejections and act like bitches. same happens with everyone who approaches girls on clubs or bars, rejections is what you see the most at least the guys laugh it off.

woman friends i dont have many that's a fact. i'm kinda shy also but not online. online women are even more stuck up bitches than in clubs, even the fat ones.

the gay thing annoys me and i find it abnormal.

I attract both women and gays. I don't get annoyed with gays. They're human too. Fix your eye contact. When gays are checking you out, ignore. When they try to open you in a sexual way, shoot them down at once.

Likewise, be sharper at body language coming from women. Women are very subtle. Read and adapt.

If you have a video of yourself moving about, that would be better than a static picture. The body language that you project might be showing approach invitation cues to gays. We can't know for sure with very limited information.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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Like Hellhound, I get some gay attention as well. I just brush it off.

I only get annoyed when they feel the need to touch me. Just eject.

Anyway, the topic at hand.

I will not sugarcoat it and say this is easy, but it is possible that your wings SUCK!

Having a wingmen you can depend on makes your gaming life incredibly easier. However, dumb-asses can fuck it up.

Your happy little threesome has a horrible mindset. With little to no game.

You should go out solo to develop and hone your own skills enough to be able to operate without the reliance of a wing.


Start by breaking away from the pack to approach, then you still have the "Well I need to get back to my friends" escape.
This is completely untrue, they are there for dick.

Go to a bar/club that will most likely get you laid.

One that is not too loud, generally, you have to talk to a girl before you can fuck her.

One that has an outdoor patio or even better if there’s a smoking section, girls who smoke are typically sluttier. Also smoking sections are always quieter than the rest of the bar, optimum isolation.

The drinks are cheap and strong, the women feel less inhibited.

Other men have a high success rate there. These bars attract women who are outright shopping for cock.

It's a hot spot, that attracts new blood.

Dress like a KING, but wear your worst underwear, for some unexplained reason when I'm wearing a pair I wouldn't get caught dead in, some slut want to drag me aside and suck my wanker!! LMAO

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Works for me:




Upload to http://postimage.org/

then get the URL code and paste inbeteen the "Img" tab ^

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i dont know, it says my post looks to spamy for a new user

then why do i see all the guys getting rejected and the women acting like stuck up bitches? most of them are even 6's or 7's

It's called a 'Bitch Shield'

Any woman you have approach in a bar or club, has been approached many times before and depending on where you are and what time of night it is (and what she looks like), possibly many times that night. She doesn't desire to get to know every swinging dick in the club. Her bitch shield protects her.

Bro keeping mind that as you approach these women, there thoughts are probably, "Oh, fuck. Here we go again, what’s this chump going to come at me with?"

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are looks my problem?

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You look relatively normal. Looks aren't the issue... but it could be the way you carry yourself.

Confidence shines through... so does creepy. If you're giving off the wrong message that'll kill you before you even start, on an approach.

As for being hit on by guys - take it as a compliment, and just tell them you aren't interested.

thanks charles i thought it was something to do with my face or something. but obviously my confidence or lack of it is hindering me.

Yeah. There are so many guys that look much worse and still do well with the ladies. You look much younger than your age which is great.

It's all about your attitude.

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Head down to Banana Republic for some new ensemble inspired by Mad Men, keep the mirrors.

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