Somewhere, in a tiny room, in an apartment, in an exciting city, a sexually ambitious male begins to learn about the game...

I heard somewhere that Richard La Ruina took six months to digest all the material that was relevant. So I'm going to use this time period as a benchmark for how long to remain in this phase. Obviously I intend to have a thorough knowledge of the many different aspects of game in sooner than six months.

I also heard that it took Richard two years to sort his wardrobe out. I might need some help there too, as this gorgy chic that I had a very brief fling with told me that my leapord-print thong was actually a turn off.....

....her body felt sooo soft and ready, pressed up against mine, as we stood outside the a pub somewhere in London and snogged...mannnn I need more of that....

Well if you want to be a pro at it I think it's going to take a couple years... BUT you'll probably acquire enough knowledge to draw the types of girls you want within six months. I wouldn't worry too much about the wardrobe as long as you dress to make yourself look cool. Small amounts of what some guys call "peacocking" (I think that's a silly term) work as well, but you can just stick to jeans and neutral t-shirts to start. The behavioral aspect is what you should be most focused on.

I'm at a low point. Still can't really shake my feelings loose from this chic that I spec-fucking-tacularly effed things up with. It seems as if no other chic is as appealing or as interesting as her. There's nothing I can do except move on. But its really fucking painfully and I keep asking myself surely there's something I can do....like send another 50 text messages and appear outside her workplace!! NOT!!

ANYWAY! Did some game theory over the weekend, yesterday saw me putting it in practice. Opened up a two set. The target was a 7. Slim legs, pert butt, slim waist, lovely natural pouting lips and a bold attitude. Nice. This was a street approach. They were moving so talked myself into travelling in the same direction as them down the highstreet. Managed not to focus entirely on the target, so I joked with her friend until I had gained said friends approval. Even managed to subtly kino the target while conversing with said friend. Eventually said friend makes an exit, kiss her on cheek goodbye, target looks pleased. Then me and the target change location. Now here's the thing, so far I being Mr Sociable, then I start to include sexual innuendo into the conservation. At one stage I noticed the target getting abit flustered! RED LIGHT WARNING! I hadn't introduced enough comfort into our interaction, so I slow the conversation down and begin to talk about interesting more general stuff. The target begins to engage in the conversation alot more. It ends with a number close.

I have no idea what to do next. When to text, what to say over the phone or where to go. Also my apartment is a bit run down so I wouldn't really want to invite any chic back. I do like the fact that I was very in control of the interaction. I think I'll stick to collecting numbers for a while until I build up my knowledge base and my confidence.

My HW for the week is to develop enough comfort thread conversations.

I have a technique that I use: after introducing myself and managing to get a conversation flowing I suddenly break off. I say nothing. Totally ignore them for a minute or so. I'll focus my attention on everything else. If its a one set, she usually looks expectantly wanting more. The two set usually huddle together. I do this so as not to convey a desperate need for any ones audience....And then I start talking again. And if I make em laugh again then I'll continue right up to the number close. Is this a good technique? Does anybody else do this?

I return to my apartment to spent the rest of the evening saddened by the beautiful chic that I lost a week earlier. I'm such an ameteur, my game needs vast improvement.

Hey man just wanted to say that if you're able to go out, have a conversation, and have a number close you're headed in the right direction. Even I have trouble after that where for reasons I need to analyze better I can push them away. I would give you advice but I fear mine isn't reliable. Nonetheless I'm new to this forum as well. I commend your ability to remember and analyze what you do and look for flaws while you do it to better improve your game. I always come up with good scenarios in retrospect but have a bit of trouble while in field.

I used to think that going out there and cold approaching and number/kiss closing meant that you were the man!! But now I view it as just the first rung in the ladder. There is way more stuff to get skilled in. I've even started looking into NLP and Entourage material which is a whole new style of game and just makes perfect sense. My game has actually been stuck on the number close for way too long. I intend to perfect my Mr. Comfort phase and improve the level of my conversation, and also work on my texting/phoning game.

The pain has gotten so bad that I'm certain I've fallen in love. But I made a strong vow never to contact this beautiful woman again. Move on.

Went out with a local lad to a pub. DJ playing tracks. Women sitting around not dancing. Get on the dance floor. Move to the beat. Approach women, tell them to get up and dance. After a while women move to the dance and start grooving. I realise that I have something, some influence, but I don't know what it is. The pub owner obviously likes me. Not feeling the women at all. They were 4's. I don't go for 4's.But they are giving me plenty of eye contact. Take that as an IOI. I leave. Go home. Drink EJ. Still in pain. Wait for sleep to come.

Hey man welcome to the forums!

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