Well, since sundays are chill days, i was kinda bored today, so i tryed some facebook game. Added some HB7 i might know from somewhere, wasnt shure from where. Imidietly, acception, and major Do i know you shit test. Here's convo for now with some of my breakdown.


Her: Do i know you?
Me: You dont remember me? Thats it, i want a divorce, keep the cat, but car is mine!
Her: I am asking you nicely.

At this time couple of my friends came to dinner. Till we agreed what we will cook, and where to buy stuffs we need, an hour passed. She deleted me from friends. (I saw her message but didnt respond before friends came). I send friends to buy stuffs, and i got back on PC

Me: I am saying nicely. Lol, i dont answer for 5 minutes and imidietly delete? i see patience is one of your bigger qualityes.
Her: I am asking nicely and you saying stupidities.
Me. wow, sense of humor too, i thought you were more interesting, but i geas its not the case. Enjoy.
Her: I am not in a mood, no hard feelings
Me: Chill, everyone sometimes get up on left leg, trips and fall.
Her: I see you are a joker.
Me: Try it, maybe u will like it
Her: Hah (i just seen)
8 minutes later,
Her: Ok, i will. (i just seen too for 3-4 minutes, but that second message seems to me like PLS WRITE SOMETHING)
Me: You need a lot of time for 2 words. I should delete you from friends now
Her: I didnt deleted you because of that, but il add you again if you really want.
Me: O yea? Give me 3 reasons why i should accept it.
Her: Well, i dont know, whatever.
Me: Try harder, you can think of 3.
Her: I dont want to!
Me: Lol i could allready tell,...you are a TROUBLE!
Her: So what?
Me: We should not talk anymore. I am a good boy and i dont want to be tempted by your devilish ways!
Her: Excuse me, pls!
Me:Look at you. Smilling while saying that. Cant even say with straight face.
Her: Send last message again, i exidently deleted (seems like major shit test, deleting messages on facebook is not quite like one button squeeze)
Me: No, it wont happen. My buddies came to dinner, im gone, we will stay in touch. I cant make them fun and you at the same time. (My friends actually did come from shopping at this time)
Her: Hah, come on. And you are giving me fun?
Me: Yes. I actually believe this was the highlight of your day. Otherwise, you would not come back for more
Her: Ye, like you know it (i seen 3.5 hours later)


Well on my thought, it went well since im doin it first time with unkown girl. We will see yet if i will be able to n-close, maybe even further. I reallyze now i had chance at I GTG part, but who cares lol, its over now, i hope i will see next chance in time.
Also, shout out for Whoopie (facebook poking method creator), for using couple of his lines here with success.
Want to hear your thought if there is any, il post the close later here(i wont chase today ofc lol), if it happens.

PS: This is happening on native language, i geas i didnt writed every word corectly

Update time.
I talked to this chick again today, and long story short, i didnt close, I actually ditched her away. Started with poking, i game my best to keep conversation c&f, her messages were quite boring usual stuffs with bunch of smileys. Anyway, I told that conversation is not fun to me and that bunch of smiles cant keep my attention. Judging on her reaction, i geas she thought i am just testing and that i wont leave convo(reaction: Shure, ok+bunch of smiles), but she got it wrong lol.

Normall I should maybe pushed convo more, if i had not started convos with more interesting chicks. Anyway, maybe im wrong for not closing, in terms of practising game. I just thought that if she is boring here, who knows how much boring she would be in live, and i dont want to waste time on boring people. Maybe i would reconsider if she comeback in big style, since she look cute, but from my side i wont engage back in convo.

Thoughts and advices are welcome, if anyone actually want i can post conversation later. I didnt post now, since it takes some time to translate it properly, and i am not down for it at the moment.

Just a few thoughts on your post, I think you did pretty well to open and to bring in someone that you do not know very well just like that, not bad work. However I would say you were wrong not to close it...

Now I know you feel she is boring and she is giving quite typical responses, however there are quite clear psychological reasons behind this. You have only just added this girl, she has not met you or at least barely knows you and therefore this conversation will not be fully comfortable with her. With Facebook and messaging girls you barely know or do not know, the key is to try and get a date or at least just meet up as soon as possible.

The reason for this is that online she cannot see you, it is not that personal and because she does not recognise you as someone she has met, she is not comfortable. Most people will not be relaxed and willing to be their full selves and open up really to someone they have just met over the internet, unless it is over a dating site where that is what they have signed up to do to an extent and even then you have to be careful. Facebook is not a dating site, it can be used as such if harnessed in the right way, but you need to realise that this girl has not signed up purely to be hit on by random guys she may or may not know and add her randomly - this is why she deleted you, because it is weird!

Now you broke past the initial awkward part, which is the hard part and you managed to continue the conversation which is great. You must have noticed that she is in security mode now though? What I mean by this is that if you look at the way she is replying, she has shut down herself for the most part and is giving very default, typical replies. Why? Because she is not fully comfortable with the situation or you, which is nothing against you, it is simply that she does not know you.

There are multiple ways you can handle this, the way I always do this sort of thing is to try and establish some sort of comfort for the girl from the start. This can be done by simply asking how they are doing, or asking some sort of question. Asking questions is not fantastic in online games, but to initiate things, it creates comfort. If you do it right, you'll find that most girls will be a bit more playful with what you say, since you have started out at least a tiny bit normal, which is in there comfort zone, then moved out into witty/funny from that, perhaps using information she gives during the conversation to prove you are listening and again, gradually making her feel more comfortable. The more comfortable she is, the more she will be herself.

Another thing is that as soon as you can, you need to try and N-Close it and try to organise a date or to meet up. This is because when you are being witty and funny, short and sweet and everything that tends to keep a girls interest, online a conversation becomes very limited after a while, again encouraging typical boring replies from the girl. I have found that before even the first hint of the conversation beginning to run dry, you need to stop while your ahead and N-Close it.

N-Closing, again, creates comfort usually, since phones are a bit more personal, you can have 900 Facebook friends, but usually only have about 70 or so phone contacts at a time, unless you really do hoard them. As soon as you N-Close you have the opportunity to organise meeting up. As soon as you meet up, the comfort will hopefully automatically build because she has now seen you and met you. She should be herself more round you and her security system will switch off for the most part. Now if she is still boring, then it is not a complete loss, you have an opportunity to try your game with her, try to end it all however you want, F-Close it or anything you like.

One key thing to remember is that the majority of tactics to seduce a girl, make her comfortable with you and so on can only be done in person, being able to kino is a key one. Talking online should be short, sweet and with the purpose of meeting up for a date or just in general, nothing else. I have noticed a lot of girls seem boring online, but when you then meet them, they let their guard down a bit and are a lot more fun, if not it is practice. Without practice you are never going to master any areas of PUA, so even if the girl is genuinely boring, she is not a waste of time if you play your game right. Do not judge a girl on her Facebook conversation too much, try to keep the judging to face to face interactions! It can even work the other way with HBs seeming great fun on Facebook because they are more confident, but in person, they are pretty boring. It's simply how the internet game works.

Thanks bro for the tips. I think you are right. In worst case i can lose an hour of time boring my self, but I can gain a lot if things go right.

Plot twist:

I exidently met this girl in bar yesterday. Long story short, opened her, we talked a bit, k close. She is boring live also lol.