I have been suffering with oneitis the past few weeks with a girl I have been dating who I believed has lost interest, however has in fact just decided to concentrate on her exams, as her friend told me she really likes me (I didn't ask her). Another friend has recently told me one of his friends who I met last week really fancies me, and so I've been flirting with her whilst doing my work at the library mostly through teasing and getting her to do things like bring me coffee. I have shown small amounts of interest when I believe she has been good, and she has told my friend she likes my attention so I try to only give her it momentarily before taking it away altogether.

I am probably going to see her next week, and so I'm thinking about telling her to come with me to get some food sometime in a break, and then comfort build, then kiss her.

I have already kissed the girl I had oneitis for, and so I am trying to progress and get to know both girls without any overlap, however we are all at college together - albeit a big one - and so need to be careful. Have you guys got any tips about what to say if interrogated by either the girls or their friends?

Thanks for any help guys.

neither confirm nor deny. Say something like "yeah, we got coffee", or "she is really into me". If they ask if you have kissed or are dating just tell them they are asking personal questions you don't want to answer..