Yesterday my co worker invited me to her place cause she didin't want to come over to my place i dont know why? So i went there got my alcohol with me we watched movie she was laying on the sofa and me to she
leaned towards me i put my hand on her back and started moving it slowly and nohting didin't happen
i didin't get laid and she said my movies sucked i dont know if she was telling the truth or not
so before she went to sleep said that i can sleep on sofa and in morning she said her kids are coming
back early morning so i shoud get up i dont know what went wrong...

I cant understand if woman invites you over and shes alone kids are with grandparents i throught
thats true sign of getting laid well she has work today mby its the cause of it or i dont know
i dont know how to escalate aswell so i could use some tips for next time how to take it smooth
i drinked and drinked and got littlebit drunk but she was kinda sober and sleepy i guess.

It could of been a long of things, but my guess is you should have tried to kiss her. Do you think she would have kissed you back? you can't expect the girl to make the first move, EVER!

well i think she would not kiss me back.

Thats true

So, you went to a girls house who you don't think would have kissed you back if you kissed her, and you are wondering why you didn't get laid? Also, what movie did you watch if you don't mind me asking?

silent hill revalation
little miss sunshine my first pick she seen it so (ancorman)

Well at work she is like hugging me every hour and stuff and telling jokes to co workers that
we go to fck so idk how this happened... she aint very pretty i been off base for year almost

So im hungry mby thats why?

Hmmm, hard to get laid during a horror flick, and even harder during a Will Farrell movie. Lol but I do love Farrell. Put on black swan next time.

im pissed littlebit cause if i cant get laid from her i dont know where i could get its
lowest i been in years from picking girls.

don't get frustrated man, girls can smell it

You simply didn't push all the buttons in the right sequence to get laid, turn your frustration into focus and work on the sequence

well i think that i messed up with movie picking and well she was kinda cold aswell.

It is your job to warm her up. what kind of conversation did you have? Movie dates aren't about the movie

well nohting much we talked about family and she talked about her ex and kids and i dont remember small talk i guess nohting much.

You said it yourself with


Read up on escalation. Also as the earlier poster said you didn't push the right buttons at the right time. You need to have a general framework in order to consistently get the results you want. Keep working at it.