What's up guys? Long-time lurker, first time poster.

A little color on me: from Eastern Europe, came to the US for college, just graduated a month ago. Currently in Philly, but moving to Miami in 2 weeks for a job (two thumbs up for not getting deported). Not exactly a beginner, as I have my moments. However, inconsistency is #1 enemy and I'm making this journal hoping that writing stuff down will help me become more consistent. Feedback is always appreciated.

6/6/14
What better way to start off by a botched set. Went to hang out with a girl that has more or less a fwb status. However, she went to bed early, no sex. Friends were being party poopers so not going out. No big deal, gotta rest up for a playoff soccer game tomorrow anyways. On the way back went to get something cold from the supermarket. Saw an attractive chick to look at some nuts for quite a while. Ended up next to me on the self-checkout lanes, so I went for it.
Me: Making some tough choices over there.
HB: Yeah, I'm so hungry after work blah blah (started explaining herself, so I take that as a good sign)
Me: Are they (the nuts) radically different?
HB: Yeah blah blah (more explaining)
Me: Did you just get done working?
HB: Yeah.
...and I paid and walked out, slowly so that she can possibly catch up to me. She went in the opposite direction. I bitched out. Still kicking myself for it. On the flip side, the botched set prodded me to start the journal so here I am. Now time to rest up for the playoff tomorrow.

I think a set is more than one girl.

You were doing great with the situational opener.

Next time tell her you are actually an exotic nut guru and for a very large fee she can have your assistance lol

Or simply ask her since she is off if she wants to get some coffee

Idk if you were asking for advice but there it is lol

Love the exotic nut guru line! Could be adapted and used in so many situations

Thanks for the feedback. Sometimes I have it all in my head but hesitate to either approach or keep it going and end up pussying out, just like that time. Working on it. The exotic guru line had me LOL.

6/7/14
Lost the playoff game. A friend from home came to visit later that day. Got pretty drunk, talked to some girls but crashed and burned everywhere. My main focus was to catch up with my friend so I wasn't too worried or trying too hard. Zero fucks given.

Haven't posted on here in a few days. Been busy saying goodbye to some folks before I move to Miami. Wasn't focused on chasing poontang, made some approaches but didn't try too hard, nothing came up from those.

Miami update

Came here earlier today to look at places to live today and tomorrow. Survived my first thunderstorm
When the storm was in full swing I hid under a tent next to 2 chicks and started talking. Were shooting the shit, told them I was new etc.. Some IOIs. They were going to dinner and I took their numbers, it was very natural (told them I don't know anyone in Miami and we should hang out). Texted them around the same time, different goofy/funny texts that made it clear it was me ("who's that cute guy you got caught up in the storm with?", "heard eating lunch late at night was not healthy"). One followed through.
Moral of the story is you never know who you can meet while hiding from a storm, and those happen often here. Will see how that pans out.