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Or they focused on the fact you are angry with women for something they cannot help, you say you hate the very things which make women, women.
Life is paradoxical. And by trying to throw your own absurdity of a paradoxical view onto life is insanity at it's finest.
Women do not play games. They are not messing with men. It is just their nature.
As much as you 'hate' women, realize women are equally frustrated by the insanity men live in. You think because women enjoy the emotion of the moment, so when you attempt to throw logic at them, they do not get you. They do not comprehend how a man can ignore his feelings to do what he thinks is the right move. Those games women play, are their emotions. Want to know the really messed up part? If you were educated in psych and how emotions work, you would know emotions are just rapid cognition, and by women trusting their individual emotion they are in fact using more intellect, more mental capacity to which men will not understand.
Use men? We are the ones who try to take care of a woman to manipulate her into attraction.
I could keep going, but come on! What you posted reaks of contradiction and emotional baggage as well as ignorance. This is not a place where we hold your hand and walk you through the world, it's time to man up.
Guess you don't know the meaning of the word ambivalence then neither. Its a love/hate thing for me right now and thats where I'm at. I could change in a year perhaps, which is why I'm on this forum, to learn and adapt and improve.
Some of what you wrote is interesting so thanks for sharing your knowledge, i'll take it an use it to better understand things. But all of you can spare me the righteous bullcrap. I guarantee that there are millions of men who at some stage hated women, either because they got spurned, they got hurt or they just don't know how to attract them. Some men maybe became motivated enough to change themselves which is what I'm doing. Others probably remained stuck hating - those are the ones you want to worry about. If I read my blog in a years time and I no longer harbour any negative feelings then I've succeeded. It would mean that I've absolved myself if whatever was holding me back and that I've become a much more attractive person.
So if you are gonna reply, tell me stuff I can make positive use of, just don't preach to me, or tell me how to be a man.
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