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PostPosted: Mon May 26, 2014 2:26 am 
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Best I know, the open is just the very first thing you say. Nothing more.

All the stuff I said about questions and running with the answer was meta-instruction on listening.

"So... What do you do when you aren't enjoying fried chicken?" Not hard, and they always know what you will ask after that.


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PostPosted: Mon May 26, 2014 3:07 am 
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Best I know, the open is just the very first thing you say. Nothing more.

All the stuff I said about questions and running with the answer was meta-instruction on listening.

"So... What do you do when you aren't enjoying fried chicken?" Not hard, and they always know what you will ask after that.
I hate asking questions like what are you doing or what do you do when you are not doing this or what are your hobbies. These questions are boring and don't really help me find out what the girl is like.

i guess what you said is good for closing but i need mid game help now.
By the way how do u close a topic?


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PostPosted: Mon May 26, 2014 11:48 pm 
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Best I know, the open is just the very first thing you say. Nothing more.

All the stuff I said about questions and running with the answer was meta-instruction on listening.

"So... What do you do when you aren't enjoying fried chicken?" Not hard, and they always know what you will ask after that.
I hate asking questions like what are you doing or what do you do when you are not doing this or what are your hobbies. These questions are boring and don't really help me find out what the girl is like.

i guess what you said is good for closing but i need mid game help now.
By the way how do u close a topic?
Think of asking chode question as exploratory mining. You are digging for gems of personal info. "Hobbies?" The "sounds like you have a lot of time on your hands" or "what do like about [hobby]?" Is that where your passions lie?" See? From hobbies to how they live life or talking about how she feels about something. I couldn't give a shit if she knits, but she is excited about it, then that's something I want to hear about.

Closing topics? Just talk about something else.


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PostPosted: Tue May 27, 2014 3:12 am 
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Best I know, the open is just the very first thing you say. Nothing more.

All the stuff I said about questions and running with the answer was meta-instruction on listening.

"So... What do you do when you aren't enjoying fried chicken?" Not hard, and they always know what you will ask after that.
I hate asking questions like what are you doing or what do you do when you are not doing this or what are your hobbies. These questions are boring and don't really help me find out what the girl is like.

i guess what you said is good for closing but i need mid game help now.
By the way how do u close a topic?
I'd suggest talking to her almost as if you've known her already. Make her feel like you can jive with her- this is what girls talk about when they say "oh my god - we just clicked". Be that guy. This is why I recommend putting a little thought in your openers. You can't always be brash and loud, for example- imagine a hot chick in a shitty mood smoking a cigarette on a stoop. I digress.

So a few words on conversation and mid-game: What do you mean "close a topic"? I'll take it literally. A few tips - don't be afraid to stop a topic and branch off to another. Friends do this all the time naturally. Use your conversation pieces to get her to talk about herself. Figure out what get's her tic and encourage conversation about that. There's too many ways to go about it but try this out: consider peppering your conversation with compliments about her personality- flatter her if she's earned it. "Wow. . . you're quite adventurous, aren't you?". Transition your conversation towards a date/close. Perhaps "wow, you seem really cool bla bla. . . we should check out XYZ, I think you'd love it". I think you get the idea. Hope you find this useful.
Never mind the close a topic, i was probably high or sleepy or something. I think i meant something like how do you go from one topic to another without making it sound kinda random.


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PostPosted: Tue May 27, 2014 6:03 am 
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Who cares? lol Like chicken?

But really, If there is a topic and she likes it, why change. And if she wants to change it she will let you know. Think back to the point about listening. You can always jump back to something she said earlier (eg. "Oh!... [recalling something she mentioned] What about [repeating something she mentioned]?" Pretty simple in concept. If you're nervous or thinking to hard about it you just need to talk to more girls. But this is just as good for guygame.


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 01, 2014 6:38 am 
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Don't worry about this anymore i fixed it. I still keep getting replies on this. How do i close this post?


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 03, 2014 11:58 am 
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I think you definitely have to look at the vibe and energy you are projecting when you approach

Like everyone, i get plenty of rejections but almost all are quite polite

Daygame can be tough but the rewards are huge. When you've just banged a girl you first met in a shopping centre an hour ago, it feels amazing

Calibrating after the first few seconds is important. Don't keep pushing things if you get really bad body language back from her from the outset.


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I am pretty sure all the advice someone could need on this issue was already posted in this thread.

A direct opener like that can come off as creepy if you dont have enough 'value', or she gets a bad thin slice of you. A guy approaching me giving me a compliment triggers a woman to thin slice you and make a rapid cognition as if she likes you. Direct works to get attraction if you are ballsy. In direct you leverage social pressure to get attraction. You are leveraging no social pressure with 'I like your hair'.

Day Game gives you less results, but the rewards are greater. Same Day Pulls are amazing, and I find the numbers flake far less, even with bad compliance and investment.

You are going through the typical newbie growth period and hitting one sticking point after another. The best advice someone, in my opinion, can give, is keep at it. A lot of this stuff works itself out.

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 05, 2014 6:27 am 
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Don't worry about this anymore i fixed it. I still keep getting replies on this. How do i close this post?
Ok then... how did you fix it?


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 05, 2014 7:17 am 
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sometimes girls don't want to talk to you. Let them walk. They can keep walking all the way home to their inferior lover. Sometimes girls want to challenge you by making it hard to talk to them. Sometimes girls want to act like a bitch bc it raises their self esteem. Figure out why girls are rejecting you. If it is because of something in their head, either figure out how to change the way they think, or don't waste your time on them. If the problem lies with you, figure out how to change your approach, look, ect. Often times girls are just taken back by the fact that you are approaching them and they put up a "shield". They may soon realize that they acted poorly towards you so keep being persistent. If a girl puts up her hand and walks away, tell her that her butt is big as she walks. She may just turn around to say something mean, and then she sees you with a big smile she can't resist.


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 05, 2014 11:57 am 
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sometimes girls don't want to talk to you. Let them walk. They can keep walking all the way home to their inferior lover. Sometimes girls want to challenge you by making it hard to talk to them. Sometimes girls want to act like a bitch bc it raises their self esteem. Figure out why girls are rejecting you. If it is because of something in their head, either figure out how to change the way they think, or don't waste your time on them. If the problem lies with you, figure out how to change your approach, look, ect. Often times girls are just taken back by the fact that you are approaching them and they put up a "shield". They may soon realize that they acted poorly towards you so keep being persistent. If a girl puts up her hand and walks away, tell her that her butt is big as she walks. She may just turn around to say something mean, and then she sees you with a big smile she can't resist.
Haha i dont know why but saying she has a big butt while she walks away would be hilarious to try out.


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 05, 2014 12:02 pm 
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Don't worry about this anymore i fixed it. I still keep getting replies on this. How do i close this post?
Ok then... how did you fix it?
i went for a push pull sort of an open
so i would go up to them with a compliment and say theres something about you that caught my eye; u look kinda interesting.
then i would say "it might be the way you dress (depending on what shes wearing i tease her) it looks kinda crazy with a touch of "im a hipster""
something like that
it usually works
then i would go into assumption stacking and then from there its just open ended questions and talking.


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sometimes girls don't want to talk to you. Let them walk. They can keep walking all the way home to their inferior lover. Sometimes girls want to challenge you by making it hard to talk to them. Sometimes girls want to act like a bitch bc it raises their self esteem. Figure out why girls are rejecting you. If it is because of something in their head, either figure out how to change the way they think, or don't waste your time on them. If the problem lies with you, figure out how to change your approach, look, ect. Often times girls are just taken back by the fact that you are approaching them and they put up a "shield". They may soon realize that they acted poorly towards you so keep being persistent. If a girl puts up her hand and walks away, tell her that her butt is big as she walks. She may just turn around to say something mean, and then she sees you with a big smile she can't resist.
Haha i dont know why but saying she has a big butt while she walks away would be hilarious to try out.

I laughed when I read that I wrote that. I haven't tried it but if she is walking away already who cares :)


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