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Best I know, the open is just the very first thing you say. Nothing more.
All the stuff I said about questions and running with the answer was meta-instruction on listening.
"So... What do you do when you aren't enjoying fried chicken?" Not hard, and they always know what you will ask after that.
I hate asking questions like what are you doing or what do you do when you are not doing this or what are your hobbies. These questions are boring and don't really help me find out what the girl is like.
i guess what you said is good for closing but i need mid game help now.
By the way how do u close a topic?
I'd suggest talking to her almost as if you've known her already. Make her feel like you can jive with her- this is what girls talk about when they say "oh my god - we just clicked". Be that guy. This is why I recommend putting a little thought in your openers. You can't always be brash and loud, for example- imagine a hot chick in a shitty mood smoking a cigarette on a stoop. I digress.
So a few words on conversation and mid-game: What do you mean "close a topic"? I'll take it literally. A few tips - don't be afraid to stop a topic and branch off to another. Friends do this all the time naturally. Use your conversation pieces to get her to talk about herself. Figure out what get's her tic and encourage conversation about that. There's too many ways to go about it but try this out: consider peppering your conversation with compliments about her personality- flatter her if she's earned it. "Wow. . . you're quite adventurous, aren't you?". Transition your conversation towards a date/close. Perhaps "wow, you seem really cool bla bla. . . we should check out XYZ, I think you'd love it". I think you get the idea. Hope you find this useful.
Never mind the close a topic, i was probably high or sleepy or something. I think i meant something like how do you go from one topic to another without making it sound kinda random.