Hi

I'm 19 years old, and I live in the Norwegian countryside. I have my occational scores, and women tell me I'm different in a good way. I know that girls also are hunting for action out there, and I would like to be the guy they are looking for.

I see that most pickup methods are made for bars and clubs where there's new people all the time, and not like here on the country, where there's the same people at the same place every weekend, so I'd like to make some pickup skills for places like mine (if there isn't any already)

I will probably mostly need help at first. but if I learn enough, I will give some back

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- Vidoy

How far is thew next town over? That is a good practice ground if you are worried poisoning the well.

My thoughts exactly, but none of my friends would consider going anywhere. Going alone makes you look like a sap, and I'd poison the well next town in one night.

I'm trying to make a way to try out your moves on the same girl, look at this maybe?
the-safety-net-my-theory-vt180016.html

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- Vidoy

Going out alone is harder, but doesn't make you a sap. And for daygame it makes no difference at all.

True, generally noone around here goes out alone, but there's always a valid excuse

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- Vidoy

I went out 92 days in a row, all alone. I actually didn't know that it is seen as a particularly hardcore way to go about it. Now I don't like going out with people because I feel stuck with them! lol

Walking in, say hi to the people smoking out front and see what they are up to. Any guy alone at the bar will be happy to meet you too, and you get to be seen interacting socially. On lookers don't know you just met. When chatting with a person away from their group, ask who they are with and if you can crash their party. Tell them your out solo. If you are cool with it, they will be too. People don't like to go out alone because they are self-conscious about it. If you don't care, you wanted to go out and meet people and you don't need anyone's permission or help, how is that being a sap? Sounds pretty boss to me. And anyone one who finds out that you came alone and met 30 people is not likely to think you are a sap, that's for sure! lol

This is totally alpha, but I usually try to gather a flock of younger guys and lead them around.

If you are cool, you aren't alone for long. Just have fun, and if you have the most fun in the place you being alone yet social is about as good as you can look. And if you have worn away your approach anxiety for the day then if you are not talking to people it's simply because you don't want to... and they know it. View going alone as being independent rather than being lonely. Because really, with hardly any cold approach practice you'll have an easier time meeting people than anyone else there.

Another tip. Dance. One guy who will break the seal on the dance floor will make all the girls happy because they can dance now and you look great and confident if you can cut loose and self-amuse in such a visible fashion.

There are great advantages to flying solo, being a lone wolf. Confidence building not being the least of them.

Nice, thanks dude

I'm 19 (drinking age is 18 here) so I probably won't meet any younger going out. I was planning on saying I was stuck waiting for the night bus, but it might be DLV that I don't drive.

Could I trouble you for a link to some DHV stories? I can't find them anywhere

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- Vidoy

Links to what? Reutines or something? I don't even think in terms of value. My daily habit is to go to a cafe and practice drawing. That's pretty damn hv. I also have the advantage of, assuming the girl isn't a dim wit, 10 seconds after to open it is clear I'm one of the smartest people they will ever meet.

But what are you looking to find online? Try telling an embarrassing story like it's the greatest thing that ever happened.

My problem is that I lack words, so I need to fill up with stories, first of all DHV stories i guess?

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- Vidoy

Well, and in this I don't really know, if you are at a loss for words then reading from a script will seem like it. I THINK that telling dhv stories is something you do when the time is right, not just when you are nervous and can't think of anything else to say.

Have you considered just saying you're a bit nervous and that you ran out of stuff to say? "I'm just chatting you up anyway, doesn't really matter what about". Then maybe talk about if it does matter. "Are you impressed if a guy just tells you a bunch of stories that he thinks makes him look good?" Ask that, see the response.

Have you ever actually listen to girls talk to each other? It's the silliest nonsense that covers 400 topics in a minute. Seriously, bro, don't sweat the content. Relax. An awkward silence isn't a big deal. When it goes dead, take a breath and remember this reply to you. And in all seriousness, this is the point at which I usually eject prematurely from a set too. Whatever. No big deal. Just open someone else. There is no harm that can come to you or the girl if you don't have a story about saving orphans from a bear attack or some other bullshit that you think chicks like.

I get what you mean, but sitting there telling them you have nothing to say implies a lot of interest in them, thereby a DLV. Ofcourse it's allowed to fail, but at a little place I could blow out the bar for the evening pretty quick. I guess making her talk a lot would be a good idea, i'm a good listener if nothing else

A good thing would be just opening up a set, chat a little forth and back then see if she comes to me. If she comes to me, she's bound to have to be a part of the conversation. And as I said, i'm good to get girls into the comfort sone where they can talk and talk and talk

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- Vidoy