Messaging this girl I met through friends the other day, feel like it's time we hang out 1 on 1 so the conversation went as follows

Me: I miss you and wanna see you, but this dumb security guard won’t let me in the zoo. Is there any way you can escape?

HB9: I hate you

Me: No you don't, come hangout after senior picnic. I'll have to get permission from your trainer of course...

HB9: And do what?

Me: check out that yogurt place

HB9: Okay. Do you want me to invite Sarah and Paul?(these guys are dating, met her through them)

Me: Just the two of us

HB9: So i'll take that as a no? lol

Did I say something wrong there? I thought I was pretty clear. Is there any way I could have been more clear or was I correct there

She hasnt had an opportunity to feel you out all the way yet. Its obvious that she doesnt want to hang out 1on1 with you, but shes interested enough to still want to get to know you.

If she is an HB9 then you are going to have to let her control the pace until you get her to really like you and feel comfortable with you. Women usually are difficult up to a certain tipping point... then they are all yours. You have to do what you need to in order to get to that point.

What is the harm in hanging out with a group of friends again? If you are trying to sleep with her and being too aggressive it shines thru and is a turn off. Shes a HB9...guys are trying to bone her 24/7. so do what it takes to make her comfortable with you... if you pull her it wont matter how long you waited.

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