Hi everyone,
yesterday I invited a HB7 I know from uni to study together today at my apartment. We had already studied together about 2 months ago but, after an hour's study (really needed the help lol), I was stopped by a jealous girlfriend(long story but played it absolutely cool).
This time she came over as usual, did about 10 minute study with light kino and banter and then i got a cup of tea and we sat down. I managed to get her close to me, asked her for a massage (she was a bit hesitant but quite glad to help). We chatted a lot, I got some very hesitant IoIs and teased her about how thin she was even getting her to pull her t shirt up to show me her belly.
THEN WE CHATTED MORE.
Finally I went to the toilet, came back, and pretty much sent her away beacause I felt I was going nowhere.
I never have problems with escalating. I think that the fact that she looked hesitating, that she's older and that we hadn't had any "romantic" interactions before she had actually set foot through the door made me think it was too daring to get out of my comfort zone.

My doubts now are mostly about:
1)How do you go through these situations where you have everything but maybe low self esteem is holding you back?
2)How do you create sexual tension with a girl that seems hesitant?(maybe I needed a more solid attraction game?)

I really hope you guys can help me answer these questions, thanks!

Seems like you're blaming her for lack of balls.

It is you that is hesitant.

You have nothing to lose, pull the trigger anyway, best case scenario is that she could say yes

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Shooing away a girl ready to pull her clothes off at your request, does not seem like the proper approach to seduction.

Blaming circumstances instead of owning up to your failures will never advance you.

You chickened out, it's that simple.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

You are right, it makes totally sense; i was asking myself the wrong questions.

Do you ever chicken out or has it ever happened to you? and how did you cope with it? any tips?

Play to win bro instead of trying not to lose.

Do you want to fuck that sweet pussy or not????

Take it as a lesson and don't make the same mistake on the next one.

Good luck.

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