| Hey I'm just starting nightgame now as I'm 21 and have been going to bars now. I checked out some of Owen's videos. I noticed that the way he opened girls was usually pointing at the girl or tapping her on the shoulder to get her attention, then extending his hand. He pulls her in really close so they're either holding hands or he's got his hands around her waist. Either way, he starts off with lots of kino.
Noticing the way he opens, I gave it a shot last night.
I looked at one girl, then extended my hand. She had a drink in her right hand so she moved it to her left hand. She then put her hand out and I grabbed it, but her phone was in her hand. It dropped on the ground, and she said, "What the fuck?!" I just looked at her and she picked up her phone. I realized I couldn't get that initial kino anymore like Owen usually starts with. Then I started laughing cuz I thought it was hilarious and then she turned and started talking to someone.
The next time I did it, I saw a girl talking to another girl. I tapped her on the shoulder, offered my hand. She took my hand, and I slowly pulled her towards me. She said "Oh..no" as if she knew I wanted to pull her on to/in front of me. She stepped back to her original spot and started talking to her friend as if nothing happened, ignoring me. Then I walked on since she looked like she was slightly pissed/uncomfortable/not wanting to talk to me.
The third time, I was on a dance floor. And this girl was very close to me, so I offered my hand, and she backed up into me so we just started dancing and eventually made out before her friend pulled her away.
So in my short experience with this (I will try more this week/weekend), I noticed that with the offering a handshake to pull girl into me, I wasn't actually able to pull the girl in to me in the non-dancefloor setting where the girl seemed pretty inclined to dance with me. Especially since her friend was also dancing and making out with strangers.
So when opening and pulling the girl into me/close to me, is there any special way it's supposed to be done? If anyone reading this has experience with this type of open that Owen uses a lot in his in-field videos, can you let me know any tips? I'm gonna experiment with this some more either way.
Also, in my short experience with night game, I've notice I have some AA in general, but more so about girls in mixed sets where I can see the girls are talking to guys that are hitting on her. Also when I'm unsure if the guy is a bf/f-buddy. I've also yet to open a seated set. I'm gonna try it out soon.
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