hey guys,

this is about the girl all my recent posts are referring to.
what attracts me the most about her is her attitude. she would always fight back and i believe her to have high self esteem. i ran the phrase with other girls wearing the same trousers i've recently seen on hear (which was actually true - adding "those are very popular these days.". her response (playful tone): "damn, i thought i was something special!". a while ago by lifting a table accidentally she spilled my drink over my pants. she was slightly embarrassed for a moment, but then went: "hey, are you scared?". if i would carry something and she asked me if it really wasn't too heavy and i'd say "no i'm ok" she would go "yeah yeah, men ego!". she's also a little demanding, likes to take decisions and can be bitchy if she doesn't get what she wants, which is less cool.
still i like that shes active, that she teases and especially that she's quick-witted and doesn't put up with everything.

since this is basically the type of girl that i'm into, i'd like to know if someone's got experience with it. is there anything in particular that might work well? do you have any special ideas what they might be attracted to?
i challenge her a lot, e.g. in sports, we do lots of bets and i tease her all the time. any suggestions?

thanks a lot,
reas0n

Hey reas0n,

Its seems like you're young man and thats awesome.

Sounds like a first love..

Now I just don't want you to over think this..

The trick to maintaining relationships at this age is to have a realistic view. Women tend to develop it a bit faster than guys do. For whatever reason, the disney and romantic movies have effected us on a deeper level than it has women.

Just remember not to begin thinking of ways to impress her; if something comes to mind naturally then act on it. But you have a lot life ahead of you and you can't spend too much time thinking about women. Do 80% of your thinking about her when she is actually in front of you if you can help it. That will keep her around. A woman likes to know she is on her guys mind, but she doesn't want to be the only thing on his mind. She wants his goals and plans for his future on his mind as well. As long as thats in place. You'll keep them around.

So if you haven't asked her out yet, just ask her out.. Tell her you like her.

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hey eddie,

thanks for your time. i guess i'm young, i also guess i'm not as young as you imagine me to be though i'm 24. and the howl situation is a little more complicated, i'm afraid.

i've had a relationship that lasted 2 years. since that girl i was with had issues with self esteem, finally leading into depression and after we separated almost made her take her life, you can probably imagine i went through quite some stuff. i've been single for 6 years now, although i was kind of involved with my ex-gf for 3 more years or so.
i can never have a girl with low self esteem anymore. ever. i really want to have a strong and tough girl. i've fallen in love with quite some girls meanwhile and always fucked things up i guess, showing interest too early and shit (i imagined there was no need for games). looking back i can tell it was better things didn't work out since none of them would fit me right.

this girl does though, i believe. i haven't met any girl that appeared to be nearly as emotionally sane as her, while being open, sympathetic, caring. i've had troubles finding a person like that. since she has a bf and things become pretty complicated once in a while, i can only wish to find another girl of that type (most likely earlier than in 6 years).
right now i'm trying to get any information i can. about inner game, attraction, trying to become better with women, trying to stop making the same mistakes over and over again. this includes also trying to get information on that sort of girls. all that is supposed to either give me the little of chance with hear, or to make me be prepared for the next girl i meet, that i can imagine to be with.

thanks! reas0n