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Fine, are you saying that you are not even going to offer to pay the bill when it arrives?
Yes. That's EXACTLY what I'm saying... have you seriously never heard this line of thought before? Really?!
Just say, "hey, I don't mind springing for stuff later on, but first time out I like to keep money out of it. Sets the tone better." Girls respect that, big time, the cool ones at least. Bribing girls and automatic treating is for provider males. It's the category that the girl puts you in. You may not think much of buying lunch, but it will land you in the category of men that buy food, drinks, diamonds, cars, trips big house with white picket fence and in the end the woman runs of to fuck the guy who wouldn't buy her anything on a first date. This is well understood and best not ignored.
That's a solid philosophy when you want to pursue a serious, LTR, for example with girls at your college. Thanks for educating me! Seriously.
But in this case we're clearly talking about a fling--sleep with each other for a few weeks, and go on your separate ways, each back to their own world. Are you saying that it paying for lunch doesnt grease the wheels? Or paying for hotel rooms if I take her for a mini-vacation? Nobody is proposing marriage for gods sake. Keep it going as long as it's working out without any drama
Maybe I am wrong, but these internet philosophies are not to be applied indiscriminately.
Just because she locked eyes with you means jack shit. She could've been looking at you and thinking that weirdo is back in here ... AGAIN. And how the holy fuck do you know that SHE wants a fling---sleep with YOU for a few weeks and separate? Fucking hell you dudes crack me up. She could already have a fucking boyfriend. You hardly know this girl and your already a million steps ahead of yourself fantasising about hotel rooms, vacations etc. Christ no wonder you guys need help. Your whole attitude toward girls is like they are just there for your amusement and to fuck until you get bored. Your vibe sucks. And sucks fucking badly! Girls can spot a fucking creep a mile away.
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