For her, of course not, but as for you, if you're really poor...like me, I was wondering, and on what circumstances. Being weak is out, of course, but I'm trying to be as frugal as possible, right now.

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Once upon a time, I left my parent's house to live independently. When the money ran out after I resigned from my first job (stupid, I know, but I can't turn back time), a female college buddy adopted me and allowed me to sleep on the couch of her internet shop.

The cook at the nearby restaurant (easily an HB 6.5 with firm boobies and a fine ass) knew I had no moolah. So she brought me food at night and did my laundry for me. In return, I banged her real good.

Morals of the story? Honesty is the best policy plus live within your means. Don't go for an instadate if you can't afford one. And one more thing, sarge girls who can help you out. Girls want to nurture non-needy men. However, once you become needy, they'll drop you like a hot potato. So avoid being needy while at the same time, triggering women's nurturing instincts.

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I'm feeling what you're saying, Hellhound. Iget that about women, at least in theory, but I haven't yet been able to take advantage of it. There's a couple old women at church who'd be willing to invest in me if I gave 'em a chance, but I've been reluctant, for all the old wuss reasons.

If I were just willing to take what girls/women were offering, I'd be a lot further along, in general, but that is something I'm trying to work on, as approach anxiety is still with me.

For flat-out sarging, there are some girls I'd be willing to pony up, but failed to get that far with the girls in question, not the least out of fear and self-sabotage.

But still: I really don't quite get something about instadates, and that is, on such such an adventure, you're expected to pay, yes, not her, and expecting her to buy for herself is at best an exception, not the rule? I've been having a genuinely hard time with this, not the least because it's a bad idea to splurge on a girl, I know. Me, I'd like to order the cheapest thing for myself, that being water, but if that's the wrong move, so be it.

Can this question mark finally be put to rest? The answers, so far, have been pretty vague.

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Hellhound is on top of that shit. Don't instadate if you can't afford it. That's just stupid.

Anyway, so what if you order water? For all she knows you like water and don't like fizzy drinks or don't feel like drinking. It's not a big deal.

Okay; got it.

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