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PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2014 3:09 am 
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Do a call and a text really make a difference? People have their thumbs on their phones at all times. And like I said I get numbers but I text more, ill admit its a bit of a caution because back when phones were phones id always get some guy answering claiming to be their boyfriend or I just her it was a guy and said screw it. Also because texting is cheaper and more convenient.
Iv also become a bit of a jerk in that department since well if they can't respond or save my number im not worth their time rite?


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PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2014 10:07 am 
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if you are not comfortable phoning then text.
most people use text anyway.


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PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2014 12:58 pm 
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You should call if you can.

Why? Every guy texts. It's easy to do.

Good looking girls have a lot of options... and always have 10 guys blowing up their phones at a time.

They can give their attention to the 9 guys texting idiot pickup lines and canned openers, or they can talk to the one guy who has the balls to actually call them.

Get the picture?


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PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2014 2:00 pm 
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makes no difference


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PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2014 3:12 pm 
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You should call if you can.

Why? Every guy texts. It's easy to do.

Good looking girls have a lot of options... and always have 10 guys blowing up their phones at a time.

They can give their attention to the 9 guys texting idiot pickup lines and canned openers, or they can talk to the one guy who has the balls to actually call them.

Get the picture?
Thats a damn good point. But im guessing all in all just depends on the situation. And belive me the girls I talk to I work with and they are 2 places where they get hit on and all they want to do is serve food


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PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2014 3:45 pm 
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makes no difference
This is a silly comment. Sure you can game using both methods. One is much more effective, though... and you'll find that's a very popular opinion in this community.


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PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2014 6:36 pm 
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Disagree.

There are many dogmatic "pua" theories that people blindly follow. Don't be a sheep.


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PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2014 7:18 pm 
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calling is for the devil
and texting is at least twice as fast.


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PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2014 11:37 pm 
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It is best to call
It shows more confidence

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PostPosted: Fri May 30, 2014 1:16 am 
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I got way more dates when I called.

But you take a higher chance of scaring the girl away.

So - higher quality leads, but with a higher chance of pushing them away.


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PostPosted: Fri May 30, 2014 1:28 am 
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When someone is selling you something does an email or a phone call work better? Think about all the ways you can avoid an email. Think about all the ways someone could make you laugh on the phone rather than through an email. Think of the rapport you can build over the phone. The list goes on and is applied to women.


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PostPosted: Fri May 30, 2014 1:34 am 
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it makes all the difference.

One of the things no one has talked about is that when you call a girl, you have more control. You aren't sitting around waiting for her to text you back, wondering if she read your text and ignored it or is she busy.

It also takes some balls to call a woman and females know this. You stand out from other guys just because you have bigger balls and called.

it is easier to display value over the phone.

easier to overcome objections. the list goes on.

Of course there are times when texting is more appropriate. I like to make the "milestone" conversations calls, and finish all the details over text. For example, the other night I fucked this hot babe with her nipples pierced. I called her to set up plans, and told her I would text her with the details (the location and time). This could be accomplished over text but think about how long it would take to plan to meet up with a girl over text (upwards of an hour texting back and forth). compared to a short phone call (5 minutes). Pehaps she makes other plans during this time or gets bored with all the planning over text. Not only that I had the opportunity to show I wasn't timid to get her on the phone and set something up with her, I was able to elicit value, make her laugh, figure out her work schedule and more all in 5 minutes.

The point I am making is don't rely too much on either, mix it up. Always make your moves with intention.


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PostPosted: Fri May 30, 2014 1:45 am 
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one last comment. and I think the other a males in here will agree...

alpha males don't really text


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PostPosted: Fri May 30, 2014 8:49 am 
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one last comment. and I think the other a males in here will agree...

alpha males don't really text
Your constant reference to "alpha" makes me laugh.

Again, in your example it would have made no difference whether you texted or phoned. If she liked you enough, she would want to meet.

My point is, don't get hung up on I should only do this , only do that, phone/text.

The game is played when you first met, the phone is only used to sort out logistics. Your part to play is not to fuck it up until you next meet.


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PostPosted: Fri May 30, 2014 8:08 pm 
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ok man you keep texting her and i'll call her lol


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