Yeah like the guy above me said, you acted weak and this woman, with her keen social awareness, picked up on it. Let it go. If you just can't let it go, follow the advice from the guy above me, but there is a 10% chance that it will work. Learn from your mistakes here and apply what you have learned to the next woman/women. Don't get too down over her because you know you are the man and she will be sleeping with inferior men (unless she meets me lol... just fucking with you) .

Ok thanks. It's just she is a nice girl I don't usually meet nice girls like that. I just need her to go out with me one more time then I'm sure I would escalate.

I've messed up she's totally flunked on me and won't reply to my text messages. I've screwed up major!

yeah. you did. but good news. there's billions of girls on earth. some much better than her.

One of the things that has worked for me before is literally just saying "oh f--- it".

One girl I met up with, we were talking and chatting most of the night and then she was looking into my eyes and said "what?". She could feel the tension as could I. So in response to her question of "what?" I looked back at her and replied "oh f--- it", put my hand on the side of her head and pulled her close and kissed her. I will admit that it was bold and quite a gamble on my part but I figured if I didn't take a risk at some point then I wasn't going to get anywhere.

Always kiss women on the first date.



ALWAYS

I wish I knew this sooner. I always thought kissing on the first date if you liked the girl was risky. The girl was giving me signs through the night like looking into my eyes and I should have went in for the kiss. At least I know next time to just go for it. I asked one of my friends who is a girl and she said you don't need to kiss on the first date but I suppose if it goes well you have secured the second date.