Yea man after her mom came back she became distant... She is so into politics.mow .. And i have no idea if her mother will ever let her go... I mean she is mature lady shouldn't she think of life ahead ... Like family... I mean time is not constant
Yea the question bothered me for a while...

I am not planning an ultimatum .. I need to know whats up... I cant be someone she can use to hang out when a chance of time comes. And i don't want to be rewarded with sex... Its a relationship it should be moving forward.
I don't think threatening is an option , i think two people being in relationship should be able to talk and if its not working out. Its time to move on. I don't want to force her if she doesn't want to.

Yes that's why I said threatening is the worst thing you can do.

If I were you, I would've run a mile a long time ago. Nothing kills my boner faster than meeting a girl's mom and finding put what sort of beast my gf will turn into 20 years down the line.

Rate her personality and looks on a scale of 1 -10. Be honest. Is she the most perfect woman you've ever seen?

I mean I will rate her like this: personality as a friend since I knew her for a year or so before 7-8 : she is easy going.. Funny... Communicates easily . As a girlfriend I will give her a 3-4 ... Unresponsive, distant , responds when she wants.. I think only one time she jumped on me and told me missed me. When her mother was gone it was all much better... She was closer. But when she came back it switched back to cold. I am not sure if she had a successful relationship before. Or maybe she had one which turned to shit. Because she always behaves odd compared to my previous gfs. She is older than me and her mother is still next to her and I am completely unsure if she wants a relationship that will turn into the family or maybe she thinks that if her mother is alone it's ok to be alone. Looks wise I ll give her 8.

Why not take her out for a romantic meal and spoil her a bit instead of booking fucking hotel rooms all the freakin time like you are using her for sex?

Bad advice. You can't fuck her on the restaurant table.

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The point is not in being romantic or to have sex in the hotel but the persons response to it since alllways saying she cant and not lets move it a day or two.
I have no problem offering anything other than hotel for example or dinner its the response i get like i csnt make it or i have something to.
In relationship people should be giving from both sides.
Even two days ago i told her that i graduted college today i didint go to graduaction i told her i graduted this day and her response was congrats...... Not even a kiss or a hug.
This is where i realise that she has no respect for me

Dump this frigid bitch. Stop waiting around for pathetic little scraps of sex once in a blue moon only when your GF "feels like it".
There are plenty of cock hungry women out there ready to suck your cock.

Get on it.

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I would go as far as to say dump her and tell her the reason why you're dumping her is because there is no sex.

I'm actually surprised that this relationship is still going. There's no sex, her mom is constantly behind her, you seem to have no connection at all. It's bound to be over any time, or perhaps she's the type that likes suffocating in dying relationships. In which case, you should end it to save time for both of you.

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Connection we do have it... Or had it before the mom came back... Having fun sharing... Concerts, drinking no akward silence... Its the last two months that are going down hill... Her mother .. Her work... She is constantly tired... I dont know what to say. I see no compromise on her part no effort.
I mean maybe a person is having hard time at work and her mom on her back but i cant manage to understand how can u not even try.
So on thursday was like so on sat we finally going to spend time together i havent seen u in a while and besides i am graduating so she said not his time we can get a drink instead. I am on my part stayed quiet and had a driving class to run to and didnt say anything. On friday i txted her saying lets meet so she replied that i declined her invitation so lets drink next week.
Seems like she is trying to "punish me"

Sounds like she has either lost attraction or she is fucking someone else.

Either way, dump.

I doubt she is fucking someone else..but attraction looks lost. I can game her but i don't see the point. If the mother is there and she was always closed of ... Question i am asking myself do i want this?

And on another note since the mother came and shit started to go down hill... I lost weight and now look skinny as fuck... This mood makes me starve... Basically this relationship affects me from both sides physically and psychologically
Been in anxiety very often also flowing on depression sea with high and love tides

I think she's cheating. And she sounds pretty young, which makes me think this even more. She's gotta be with another hottie. She watches too much Gossip Girl.

You don't want a woman who uses sex as a weapon anyway. The fact that she gave you a little and took it away is messed. Mind games aren't hot.

I don't think it's relevant at all whether she's cheating or not. She's taking a huge ass dump on the relationship big time, and that should be more than enough to dump her.

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